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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 114398" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Peaceful, </p><p></p><p>Sounds like everyone is doing everything they can. While the judge has made a nervy call in her case, I like it. Does anyone think that she's really never going to curse again? I wouldn't think so - but each time she DOES swear - and you pick up the phone to report it - you aren't just reporting bad language - you are reporting bad behavior. </p><p></p><p>Technically he's eliminated a bad coping skill. So it makes her think about trying to comply, finding an appropriate way to express her anger and makes the behavior a tad more appropriate. The fact that he sent her DIRECTLY to a PO, which is never done? I'd say was to drive the fact HOME to her - that he means what he says - he means it so much SHE got to start TODAY learning what he meant. </p><p></p><p>The judge sounded like he really knew some psychology - but I don't doubt that he means for his word to be law. </p><p></p><p>Hugs for your day - </p><p></p><p>also - I worked with a kid that had an older brother that just used to pummel him for no apparent reason. I gave the younger boy a whistle and told him if he was in danger he could blow that whistle and someone would come for him. He said often his brother would threaten him or cover his mouth, but it gave him a sense of security, it made the older child angry - because now there WAS a defense in place that would bring the troops and it actually worked better than a camera - because one blow and adults came running - an IMMEDIATE reaction to bad behavior, nipped in the bud before someone got pounded.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 114398, member: 4964"] Peaceful, Sounds like everyone is doing everything they can. While the judge has made a nervy call in her case, I like it. Does anyone think that she's really never going to curse again? I wouldn't think so - but each time she DOES swear - and you pick up the phone to report it - you aren't just reporting bad language - you are reporting bad behavior. Technically he's eliminated a bad coping skill. So it makes her think about trying to comply, finding an appropriate way to express her anger and makes the behavior a tad more appropriate. The fact that he sent her DIRECTLY to a PO, which is never done? I'd say was to drive the fact HOME to her - that he means what he says - he means it so much SHE got to start TODAY learning what he meant. The judge sounded like he really knew some psychology - but I don't doubt that he means for his word to be law. Hugs for your day - also - I worked with a kid that had an older brother that just used to pummel him for no apparent reason. I gave the younger boy a whistle and told him if he was in danger he could blow that whistle and someone would come for him. He said often his brother would threaten him or cover his mouth, but it gave him a sense of security, it made the older child angry - because now there WAS a defense in place that would bring the troops and it actually worked better than a camera - because one blow and adults came running - an IMMEDIATE reaction to bad behavior, nipped in the bud before someone got pounded. [/QUOTE]
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