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<blockquote data-quote="Allan-Matlem" data-source="post: 420210" data-attributes="member: 10"><p>Hi,</p><p>taking away the guitar is Plan A , using extrinsic motivation and according to the explosive child-cps approach that won't teach the missing skills and in many cases will just add more stress , the kid feeling adults are being unfair , not interested in his concerns or understand him , just interested in manipulating him and using privileges etc as leverage. many RTCs still use behavior modification , levels etc , it is easier , you feel you are doing something , ' doing to the kid . in the short term you might be able to make the kid look good , but it does not last long. Instead we should be working with the kid, building trust so he sees us a help , mentor etc and using plan B , work on his lacking skills in the context of unsolved problems..plan b is a process , not a technique , takes time and many plan B experiences. We should be looking at various situations in great detail and start working on ' unsolved problems'.</p><p></p><p>Allan</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Allan-Matlem, post: 420210, member: 10"] Hi, taking away the guitar is Plan A , using extrinsic motivation and according to the explosive child-cps approach that won't teach the missing skills and in many cases will just add more stress , the kid feeling adults are being unfair , not interested in his concerns or understand him , just interested in manipulating him and using privileges etc as leverage. many RTCs still use behavior modification , levels etc , it is easier , you feel you are doing something , ' doing to the kid . in the short term you might be able to make the kid look good , but it does not last long. Instead we should be working with the kid, building trust so he sees us a help , mentor etc and using plan B , work on his lacking skills in the context of unsolved problems..plan b is a process , not a technique , takes time and many plan B experiences. We should be looking at various situations in great detail and start working on ' unsolved problems'. Allan [/QUOTE]
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