Very good job JKF.
It does take us all awhile to get to the point you're at, our difficult child's drag us along and then one day we wake up and realize, wait a minute, I am working way harder then he/she is!! And, then we stop. What's remarkable is that all of those things you used to do for your son, will suddenly get done without you........BY HIM!
Go figure.
And, if they don't get done by him, he will find someone else to take care of it for him. Either way, it isn't you.
I'll bet you begin to feel a lot better now and perhaps find more and more peace of mind and laughter and serenity too.
Good job.
