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<blockquote data-quote="Steely" data-source="post: 93217" data-attributes="member: 3301"><p>I just wanted you to know I am SO sorry........just when you think you may be able to look up with these kids, you are quickly reminded to never take your eyes far from the past. They just seem to have a deep need to repeat, repeat, repeat............and blame, blame, blame. Which perhaps is why they never grow, they are too busy blaming. And who do they blame? Mom. Always.</p><p> :bloodshot: </p><p></p><p>I think you are completely on track with your thinking. Sometimes it does take days for us to regroup and find our own perspective. But, you did, and know you can go forward without as much guilt, or stress. Detach! And let him live, so that he can have his own natural consequences. Evidently, it is the only way these kids learn, because otherwise they are too busy blaming us :frown: </p><p></p><p>Hang in there............sending many hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Steely, post: 93217, member: 3301"] I just wanted you to know I am SO sorry........just when you think you may be able to look up with these kids, you are quickly reminded to never take your eyes far from the past. They just seem to have a deep need to repeat, repeat, repeat............and blame, blame, blame. Which perhaps is why they never grow, they are too busy blaming. And who do they blame? Mom. Always. [img]:bloodshot:[/img] I think you are completely on track with your thinking. Sometimes it does take days for us to regroup and find our own perspective. But, you did, and know you can go forward without as much guilt, or stress. Detach! And let him live, so that he can have his own natural consequences. Evidently, it is the only way these kids learn, because otherwise they are too busy blaming us [img]:frown:[/img] Hang in there............sending many hugs. [/QUOTE]
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