Since your child has an IEP, you might want to request that the people on the playground be made aware of it and how to handle difficult child. By us, legally the school can't tell us about a child's IEP, etc. unless the parent okays it. Normally we get around it by asking the teacher or principal what they find works for them when they have such & such a problem with the child. Also, anyone who has kids with allergies should know that the people supervising them at lunch just might not be aware of the allergy because of the same reason! Even kids with severe asthma, etc. might not be known.
