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Thank you for your experience Busy. I relate to it wholeheartedly. He has most definitely promised things in the past without following thru on them. That's about the time I cut off the money. After about two years, he asked to borrow on two separate occassions, both of which he paid me back as promised. I was super surprised and happy about that. Now he is asking once again. I realize this attempt to get him to walk into an AA meeting using a bit of coercion most likely will be a futile attempt. I am prepared for him to refuse and that's okay too. I appreciate your honest words here and that I may be playing with fire only to get burned.