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<blockquote data-quote="runawaybunny" data-source="post: 631292" data-attributes="member: 1"><p>Welcome @[USER=18196]AshDowney[/USER]</p><p></p><p>I'm no expert but from what I have read about the experiences of our community kids that act out do so out of a fear of being unable to tolerate shame, fear, vulnerability. When they act out they get us to feel those things and they don't have to. Of course it is not done consciously. Many have said their child's anger scares them but that is the only tool they have to convey their emotions. They bypass the think what I should do mode to this is how I feel and then they act it out.</p><p></p><p>You are not the first parent to face these issues and you will not be the last. I suggest that you read through the posts in the following thread <a href="http://www.conductdisorders.com/community/threads/adapting-the-explosive-child-for-younger-children.864/" target="_blank">http://www.conductdisorders.com/community/threads/adapting-the-explosive-child-for-younger-children.864/</a>.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="runawaybunny, post: 631292, member: 1"] Welcome @[USER=18196]AshDowney[/USER] I'm no expert but from what I have read about the experiences of our community kids that act out do so out of a fear of being unable to tolerate shame, fear, vulnerability. When they act out they get us to feel those things and they don't have to. Of course it is not done consciously. Many have said their child's anger scares them but that is the only tool they have to convey their emotions. They bypass the think what I should do mode to this is how I feel and then they act it out. You are not the first parent to face these issues and you will not be the last. I suggest that you read through the posts in the following thread [url]http://www.conductdisorders.com/community/threads/adapting-the-explosive-child-for-younger-children.864/[/url]. [/QUOTE]
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