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<blockquote data-quote="nlj" data-source="post: 644317" data-attributes="member: 17650"><p>Hi Shan</p><p></p><p>Telling your story is helping you to see what's wrong I think, and showing you that you do not have to tolerate your husband's abusive behaviour or your adult children's mirroring of his behaviour. That is often the case for us here I think - getting it out in the open helps us to realise that we are stuck in a situation that is not acceptable and leads to us to find a way to end our part in continuing to feed a cycle of unacceptable behaviour. </p><p></p><p>Your children are all grown up. It is time for them to all move out and find their own place to live and their own place in life. They will find that there are not many people out there who will tolerate their current behaviour or want to be around them.</p><p></p><p>Your husband needs to realise that, if he does not change his attitude and start respecting you, then really he does not deserve to have you as his partner.</p><p></p><p>It's time to start reclaiming your life and respecting and valuing yourself. I think posting your story here may be the start. I hope you find some peace and start planning a positive future for yourself. You do not have to live like this.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="nlj, post: 644317, member: 17650"] Hi Shan Telling your story is helping you to see what's wrong I think, and showing you that you do not have to tolerate your husband's abusive behaviour or your adult children's mirroring of his behaviour. That is often the case for us here I think - getting it out in the open helps us to realise that we are stuck in a situation that is not acceptable and leads to us to find a way to end our part in continuing to feed a cycle of unacceptable behaviour. Your children are all grown up. It is time for them to all move out and find their own place to live and their own place in life. They will find that there are not many people out there who will tolerate their current behaviour or want to be around them. Your husband needs to realise that, if he does not change his attitude and start respecting you, then really he does not deserve to have you as his partner. It's time to start reclaiming your life and respecting and valuing yourself. I think posting your story here may be the start. I hope you find some peace and start planning a positive future for yourself. You do not have to live like this. [/QUOTE]
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