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<blockquote data-quote="Shan" data-source="post: 644806" data-attributes="member: 18684"><p>I went to my first counseling session. My primary doctor had spoken to her and she agrees that his assessment is right on. I'm depressed bc if my life. Not chemical imbalance or anything else. I have been doing very good not reacting to him . I walk away or say I'm not going to fight with you bc I know your trying to get me to feel bad about myself and I won't allow it. I do my stuff at home but I tend to try not to have much interaction with him. I know it is driving him crazy . He has tried everything. Being super nice when he calls from work . Not calling at all, as if this bothers me. I am doing me now and I know he is going to get worse until he realizes he won't break me. I don't know if I want to be married still but I can tell you it will be a fight when I leave bc ( I don't mean this in a mean way) if he wasn't married to me he wouldn't have the things he has. Owning a business it' was business my father stArted. Money we have was my inheritance . Being married to me he has had many opportunities he never would have had and he knows this. So financially I will be fine. His father died last year I helped his mom with a lot I have stepped away. He doesn't like it but she is miserabke and for my well being I had to. He doesn't like I'm getting stronger and doing my own thing. I even went for movie night and slept over at my daughters. Now I hsve him confused bc I don't think he knows what to do bc he is losing control. He knows if I leave he has much to lose but if he is willing to go to counseling mb it will work . As far as my boys I have stopped doing laundry etc and I barely cook. They have no clue whTs going on too. Please pray I can keep my calm but I think I'll be able to bc I'm at the point where I just do not care anymore . It's time I focus on me. ThAnk you all everything you have saud deep down I knew. Glad I found you all</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shan, post: 644806, member: 18684"] I went to my first counseling session. My primary doctor had spoken to her and she agrees that his assessment is right on. I'm depressed bc if my life. Not chemical imbalance or anything else. I have been doing very good not reacting to him . I walk away or say I'm not going to fight with you bc I know your trying to get me to feel bad about myself and I won't allow it. I do my stuff at home but I tend to try not to have much interaction with him. I know it is driving him crazy . He has tried everything. Being super nice when he calls from work . Not calling at all, as if this bothers me. I am doing me now and I know he is going to get worse until he realizes he won't break me. I don't know if I want to be married still but I can tell you it will be a fight when I leave bc ( I don't mean this in a mean way) if he wasn't married to me he wouldn't have the things he has. Owning a business it' was business my father stArted. Money we have was my inheritance . Being married to me he has had many opportunities he never would have had and he knows this. So financially I will be fine. His father died last year I helped his mom with a lot I have stepped away. He doesn't like it but she is miserabke and for my well being I had to. He doesn't like I'm getting stronger and doing my own thing. I even went for movie night and slept over at my daughters. Now I hsve him confused bc I don't think he knows what to do bc he is losing control. He knows if I leave he has much to lose but if he is willing to go to counseling mb it will work . As far as my boys I have stopped doing laundry etc and I barely cook. They have no clue whTs going on too. Please pray I can keep my calm but I think I'll be able to bc I'm at the point where I just do not care anymore . It's time I focus on me. ThAnk you all everything you have saud deep down I knew. Glad I found you all [/QUOTE]
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