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<blockquote data-quote="Fran" data-source="post: 125531" data-attributes="member: 3"><p>in my humble opinion, your difficult child is entitled to her privacy as an adult. If you do not believe she would be a danger to children, then stay back. It's not our place as parents to treat them as children. Remember you want her to be independent. She can't do that if you treat her as a child. </p><p>Imagine your horror if you got a decent job and your husband/mother etc talked to your boss about your weakness, diagnosis' or private info. </p><p></p><p>I would help daughter to figure this out and let her decide what's the best way to approach the situation. Daycare is stressful in my humble opinion again. On the other hand, she will never find her niche if she can't take offers. </p><p></p><p>We, on the other hand as a last resort helped difficult child with a job after being unemployed for 5 months. It didn't work out very well. We will try to never do it again. </p><p></p><p>Your difficult child got her job without your input. Let it alone. Help daughter to role play. Present a day care situation and help her understand the expectations and proper responses. Not just telling her but role playing. If she finds 5 days a week too much then she can talk to the supervisor. Hopefully by then she will have proven herself to be a good employee and will work with her.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Fran, post: 125531, member: 3"] in my humble opinion, your difficult child is entitled to her privacy as an adult. If you do not believe she would be a danger to children, then stay back. It's not our place as parents to treat them as children. Remember you want her to be independent. She can't do that if you treat her as a child. Imagine your horror if you got a decent job and your husband/mother etc talked to your boss about your weakness, diagnosis' or private info. I would help daughter to figure this out and let her decide what's the best way to approach the situation. Daycare is stressful in my humble opinion again. On the other hand, she will never find her niche if she can't take offers. We, on the other hand as a last resort helped difficult child with a job after being unemployed for 5 months. It didn't work out very well. We will try to never do it again. Your difficult child got her job without your input. Let it alone. Help daughter to role play. Present a day care situation and help her understand the expectations and proper responses. Not just telling her but role playing. If she finds 5 days a week too much then she can talk to the supervisor. Hopefully by then she will have proven herself to be a good employee and will work with her. [/QUOTE]
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