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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 362630" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>I received a rare call. I was pretty stunned, but glad to know he's okay. Well, so I thought. Apparently he got MRSA and is very sick. He was treated and released. They lanced golf-ball sized boils and packed them with something in 5 places. (exhale) HOW am I to know these things? This is just detachment at it's worst. Okay so I get over that and get another call 2 days later. </p><p> </p><p>I asked what was up, how he was feeling. He said very badly, and it didn't help that daughter punched him in the face after an argument they had. When I heard the words? I can't really explain to you the flash of things that went through my mind - but I replied simply "I'm really sorry that happened, but not surprised." The conversation revealed that always in front of daughter's friends - he acts macho, bravado and puts him down. When no one is around? He's conversational, decent and enjoys having Dude do things for him." I think this is psychopathic/bi-polarism at it's best, add in years of drug, alchohol abuse and voila - Unevitable danger waiting to happen. </p><p> </p><p>I was also told that upon being punched in the face, a fight ensued and daughter was beaten to a pulp. This in itself has (in my humble opinion) been a long time coming. However - now there is the absolute of retribution. That hasn't changed since I've known him - psychopaths are vindictive, maniuplative and I warned him - but of course young and dumb remains young and dumb. </p><p> </p><p>This is a person that needs to be put away for life. He should not be in society. I could NOT for the life of me understand WHY this kid would want ANYTHING to do with that world that we tried so hard to keep him from. Now? Now he doesn't want to be there, he wants to leave, he's said he is so sick of everyone there being on drugs and daughter swinging moods. (I'm not disagreeing, but not sure what to tell him) My thought is turn yourself in, but that and daughter behind you and enjoy your life when you get out. Make something of yourself...but if I suggest it? He'll do the opposite so right now? I'm just waiting for him to get disgusted enough and make his own move. </p><p> </p><p>Hopefully in the mean time daughter will leave him alone. I doubt it - I know him, I've told the boy - but I can't do much more than that. </p><p> </p><p>Just keep The Dude in your prayers or good thoughts please. Or if you have an extra angel to spare? </p><p> </p><p>Thanks - just needed to get that out. (therapy for my frazzled soul) </p><p>Hugs & Love </p><p>Star</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 362630, member: 4964"] I received a rare call. I was pretty stunned, but glad to know he's okay. Well, so I thought. Apparently he got MRSA and is very sick. He was treated and released. They lanced golf-ball sized boils and packed them with something in 5 places. (exhale) HOW am I to know these things? This is just detachment at it's worst. Okay so I get over that and get another call 2 days later. I asked what was up, how he was feeling. He said very badly, and it didn't help that daughter punched him in the face after an argument they had. When I heard the words? I can't really explain to you the flash of things that went through my mind - but I replied simply "I'm really sorry that happened, but not surprised." The conversation revealed that always in front of daughter's friends - he acts macho, bravado and puts him down. When no one is around? He's conversational, decent and enjoys having Dude do things for him." I think this is psychopathic/bi-polarism at it's best, add in years of drug, alchohol abuse and voila - Unevitable danger waiting to happen. I was also told that upon being punched in the face, a fight ensued and daughter was beaten to a pulp. This in itself has (in my humble opinion) been a long time coming. However - now there is the absolute of retribution. That hasn't changed since I've known him - psychopaths are vindictive, maniuplative and I warned him - but of course young and dumb remains young and dumb. This is a person that needs to be put away for life. He should not be in society. I could NOT for the life of me understand WHY this kid would want ANYTHING to do with that world that we tried so hard to keep him from. Now? Now he doesn't want to be there, he wants to leave, he's said he is so sick of everyone there being on drugs and daughter swinging moods. (I'm not disagreeing, but not sure what to tell him) My thought is turn yourself in, but that and daughter behind you and enjoy your life when you get out. Make something of yourself...but if I suggest it? He'll do the opposite so right now? I'm just waiting for him to get disgusted enough and make his own move. Hopefully in the mean time daughter will leave him alone. I doubt it - I know him, I've told the boy - but I can't do much more than that. Just keep The Dude in your prayers or good thoughts please. Or if you have an extra angel to spare? Thanks - just needed to get that out. (therapy for my frazzled soul) Hugs & Love Star [/QUOTE]
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