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<blockquote data-quote="Mattsmom277" data-source="post: 363046" data-attributes="member: 4264"><p>Star, in many ways our lives our paralell as we've learned. Hopefully in this area as well. I to this day have NO clue how Matt survived living with/tolerating his bio-dad for that period of time where he lost any semblance of common sense and moved in with him. Urgh! But he left and the contact they have now is when he keeps tabs to find out if he's working so that he can try to get him to cough up some support (I have never and wont' ever pursue support, so Matt's new thing is pressuring biodad to cough it up, since if a payment ever arrives, its all Matt's, I don't want a dime of it). I wish he'd let go of it, but I think my boy just needs to feel he's hit back somehow at dad and only way is via cold hard cash. I bet that need will fade over time. I still remember my elation when he had that light bulb moment and walked away from biodad and the desire/dream to suddenly have a father he always craved. He truly sees now that it isn't ever going to happen, and I don't know he would have learned that lesson without the awful time he spent living there learning the grass isn't greener, Know what I mean??</p><p>I'm incredibly sorry to hear physical stuff is going on. I want to reach through space/time and do something I can't type here, to a scum bucket that would do such a thing. Instead I'll send mega juju to your Dude, that he leave, that he emotionally move past this man, and that he is safe and finds his right path.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Mattsmom277, post: 363046, member: 4264"] Star, in many ways our lives our paralell as we've learned. Hopefully in this area as well. I to this day have NO clue how Matt survived living with/tolerating his bio-dad for that period of time where he lost any semblance of common sense and moved in with him. Urgh! But he left and the contact they have now is when he keeps tabs to find out if he's working so that he can try to get him to cough up some support (I have never and wont' ever pursue support, so Matt's new thing is pressuring biodad to cough it up, since if a payment ever arrives, its all Matt's, I don't want a dime of it). I wish he'd let go of it, but I think my boy just needs to feel he's hit back somehow at dad and only way is via cold hard cash. I bet that need will fade over time. I still remember my elation when he had that light bulb moment and walked away from biodad and the desire/dream to suddenly have a father he always craved. He truly sees now that it isn't ever going to happen, and I don't know he would have learned that lesson without the awful time he spent living there learning the grass isn't greener, Know what I mean?? I'm incredibly sorry to hear physical stuff is going on. I want to reach through space/time and do something I can't type here, to a scum bucket that would do such a thing. Instead I'll send mega juju to your Dude, that he leave, that he emotionally move past this man, and that he is safe and finds his right path. [/QUOTE]
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