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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 731450" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Can he take public transportation? Uber seems awfully expensive. Can you take care of his cats instead of boarding them?</p><p></p><p>He has to do this himself. Our grown kids sometimes get their hearts broken badly. Like all adults there are relationship busts, bad marriages, divorces, custody battles, job losses, disappointments....why? Because that's life. Life isihard for everyone. The Mom thing doesn't work when they grow up. A hug and a toy doesn't work. Was so easy then, wasn't it??? It is hard to see our loved ones heartbroken but that is a part of life.</p><p></p><p>The addiction is on your son. You can't make him get clean. I hope he decides to. Mom and Dad however can not make our adult kids all better. My youngest daughter had a hard break up when she was just 18 and she was very upset. It broke my heart but she had to work it out and she is fine now, but there was nothing I could do to help her; except talks and hugs and giving her space, I was powerless. It did make her stronger. And life gets better too. She is engaged and graduating from Law Enforcement in two weeks. Turns out this man is perfect for her. Her old heartche really was not. Remind your son there are others out there</p><p></p><p>I wish you the best of luck and remember that your son's trials are just a part of adult life. Nobody is unscathed or never hurt or never has to make a hard choice. He has to do it his way, even if it'd it's not your way.</p><p></p><p>Love and light!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 731450, member: 1550"] Can he take public transportation? Uber seems awfully expensive. Can you take care of his cats instead of boarding them? He has to do this himself. Our grown kids sometimes get their hearts broken badly. Like all adults there are relationship busts, bad marriages, divorces, custody battles, job losses, disappointments....why? Because that's life. Life isihard for everyone. The Mom thing doesn't work when they grow up. A hug and a toy doesn't work. Was so easy then, wasn't it??? It is hard to see our loved ones heartbroken but that is a part of life. The addiction is on your son. You can't make him get clean. I hope he decides to. Mom and Dad however can not make our adult kids all better. My youngest daughter had a hard break up when she was just 18 and she was very upset. It broke my heart but she had to work it out and she is fine now, but there was nothing I could do to help her; except talks and hugs and giving her space, I was powerless. It did make her stronger. And life gets better too. She is engaged and graduating from Law Enforcement in two weeks. Turns out this man is perfect for her. Her old heartche really was not. Remind your son there are others out there I wish you the best of luck and remember that your son's trials are just a part of adult life. Nobody is unscathed or never hurt or never has to make a hard choice. He has to do it his way, even if it'd it's not your way. Love and light! [/QUOTE]
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