Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Substance Abuse
prayers
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 731477" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Not to keep piling it on, but he moved across the country maybe because, whether or not he succeeds, he doesn't want his parents scrambling around him trying to fix him.</p><p></p><p>There is absolutely no guarantee he will accept rehab and if he goes, maybe because you offer him some prize, he isn't committed to quitting. He actually gave his car up to continue to drink, smoke weed, and who knows what else. Without motivation, he won't stay.</p><p></p><p>If he wanted parental involvement at this level not even a girl could make him move away. There are girls who live near you. I think it is healthy that he moved away, even if he is not healthy in other ways. Although he should have picked s less pricey area. I assume he picked the west coast, which is not good common sense if you don't make a lot of money.</p><p></p><p>I don't think k you should have talked to his girlfriend. "That's between you and my son." It says a lot that she felt he was too weak to go through this alone. She slso sees the over involvement. He must grow up. You can't live forever. Then what will he do?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 731477, member: 1550"] Not to keep piling it on, but he moved across the country maybe because, whether or not he succeeds, he doesn't want his parents scrambling around him trying to fix him. There is absolutely no guarantee he will accept rehab and if he goes, maybe because you offer him some prize, he isn't committed to quitting. He actually gave his car up to continue to drink, smoke weed, and who knows what else. Without motivation, he won't stay. If he wanted parental involvement at this level not even a girl could make him move away. There are girls who live near you. I think it is healthy that he moved away, even if he is not healthy in other ways. Although he should have picked s less pricey area. I assume he picked the west coast, which is not good common sense if you don't make a lot of money. I don't think k you should have talked to his girlfriend. "That's between you and my son." It says a lot that she felt he was too weak to go through this alone. She slso sees the over involvement. He must grow up. You can't live forever. Then what will he do? [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Substance Abuse
prayers
Top