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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 515488" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>I really do need to take some time to figure out just how to deal with all this and I am not entirely sure how to do it. I know Buck is faking stupidity just for stupidity's sake. He can tell us in one breath that he has been to Disney world but then in the next breath when Tony asks me if I am gonna make the meal for St. Patrick's Day, he asks what St. Patricks Day is. Now tell me, just how long you have to be on this earth to have not ever heard of St Patricks day? The man is 55 years old for cripes sake! So Tony started telling him that St Patrick was the patron saint of something and he said he couldnt remember exactly which patron saint so he asked me to look it up so I did and I read the wikipedia on it and I told Buck he ought to really be pleased to observe St Patricks day because it was a religious holiday. </p><p></p><p>Well...that was all well and good until I mentioned Roman Catholic and Irish Protestant. He started saying something about how his momma said something about Catholics and his grandma said something else about Catholics and how they could drink, play cards and do whatever then go to church on Saturday and say a few Hail Mary's and all was forgiven. I looked over at him and stopped him cold. I said Buck...you better stop right there and think about the next words coming out of your mouth. My entire family is Catholic. You are sitting in my house. Not your brothers house...Mine. Think about whether you want to offend me. He blinked and he said well its all the bible and my bible is right. If the Catholics drink real wine then they arent reading the bible right. Fing idiot. </p><p></p><p>Then he started in on the whole junk about how people who have pain and just lay around all day or sit around will just end up in more and more pain. His doctors told him so. He told me I just needed to get out there and work and move more and I would feel so much better. I probably wouldnt be so disabled if I just didnt sit around all the time. Now I know where Tony gets it. Tony has that same attitude. They both have this thing about how they both worked from the time they were 5 years old and never got a damn thing from anyone. I think thats pitiful. They had xmas's where the only things they got were a football to share between them and a 2 liter mountain dew each. I think that is poor. No inside running water. Buck thinks their parents were wonderful. I think they were pitiful. I think they had more kids than they could afford to take care of. If I say what I feel, I will be saying stuff that will have me really fighting. But Buck says things like his mother who was 405 pounds when she died could work circles around me. That I am just a lazy slob compared to her. They have both promoted both their parents to sainthood. Now their dad was a womanizing, childbeating whorehound. They are convinced they have a sibling out there they have never met. </p><p></p><p>It will not take me much longer of being put down to pull all of this out and just lay it out there. I am tired of being called useless and lazy. Tony will tell me at 9pm that he is coming to bed so I start in here and then when I climb in, he doesnt come in for another 30 minutes so he has 30 minutes alone with his brother. Now excuse me, he has spent all day with him. He has had absolutely no time alone with me. When he comes in the bedroom he falls asleep within 4 minutes of his head hitting the pillow...if that. All we do now is argue. We have had sex one time since June and that was the weekend we saw Witzend because we stayed at the motel over night. I cant have sex with him in the house. I have no doubt he would interrupt. He actually asked me today if Billy was staying out all weekend because Billy didnt come home last night. I told him I guessed so if he didnt come home...I dont keep up with Billy on a daily basis. He is grown. I believe Billy told all of us that he was going to the beach this weekend. Ugh.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 515488, member: 1514"] I really do need to take some time to figure out just how to deal with all this and I am not entirely sure how to do it. I know Buck is faking stupidity just for stupidity's sake. He can tell us in one breath that he has been to Disney world but then in the next breath when Tony asks me if I am gonna make the meal for St. Patrick's Day, he asks what St. Patricks Day is. Now tell me, just how long you have to be on this earth to have not ever heard of St Patricks day? The man is 55 years old for cripes sake! So Tony started telling him that St Patrick was the patron saint of something and he said he couldnt remember exactly which patron saint so he asked me to look it up so I did and I read the wikipedia on it and I told Buck he ought to really be pleased to observe St Patricks day because it was a religious holiday. Well...that was all well and good until I mentioned Roman Catholic and Irish Protestant. He started saying something about how his momma said something about Catholics and his grandma said something else about Catholics and how they could drink, play cards and do whatever then go to church on Saturday and say a few Hail Mary's and all was forgiven. I looked over at him and stopped him cold. I said Buck...you better stop right there and think about the next words coming out of your mouth. My entire family is Catholic. You are sitting in my house. Not your brothers house...Mine. Think about whether you want to offend me. He blinked and he said well its all the bible and my bible is right. If the Catholics drink real wine then they arent reading the bible right. Fing idiot. Then he started in on the whole junk about how people who have pain and just lay around all day or sit around will just end up in more and more pain. His doctors told him so. He told me I just needed to get out there and work and move more and I would feel so much better. I probably wouldnt be so disabled if I just didnt sit around all the time. Now I know where Tony gets it. Tony has that same attitude. They both have this thing about how they both worked from the time they were 5 years old and never got a damn thing from anyone. I think thats pitiful. They had xmas's where the only things they got were a football to share between them and a 2 liter mountain dew each. I think that is poor. No inside running water. Buck thinks their parents were wonderful. I think they were pitiful. I think they had more kids than they could afford to take care of. If I say what I feel, I will be saying stuff that will have me really fighting. But Buck says things like his mother who was 405 pounds when she died could work circles around me. That I am just a lazy slob compared to her. They have both promoted both their parents to sainthood. Now their dad was a womanizing, childbeating whorehound. They are convinced they have a sibling out there they have never met. It will not take me much longer of being put down to pull all of this out and just lay it out there. I am tired of being called useless and lazy. Tony will tell me at 9pm that he is coming to bed so I start in here and then when I climb in, he doesnt come in for another 30 minutes so he has 30 minutes alone with his brother. Now excuse me, he has spent all day with him. He has had absolutely no time alone with me. When he comes in the bedroom he falls asleep within 4 minutes of his head hitting the pillow...if that. All we do now is argue. We have had sex one time since June and that was the weekend we saw Witzend because we stayed at the motel over night. I cant have sex with him in the house. I have no doubt he would interrupt. He actually asked me today if Billy was staying out all weekend because Billy didnt come home last night. I told him I guessed so if he didnt come home...I dont keep up with Billy on a daily basis. He is grown. I believe Billy told all of us that he was going to the beach this weekend. Ugh. [/QUOTE]
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