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<blockquote data-quote="tryingtobestrong" data-source="post: 747023" data-attributes="member: 22817"><p>I have another question... again I feel like I am falling back into enabling but I also want to give him a shot...There is a recovery coach that he knows and mentioned seeing him at one time. I felt I could offer that and pay for it once a week. He would drug test him as well so there would be some accountability. (although I don't know how long alcohol stays in your system- so if he drank after the session would it still be in his system the following week. I imagine it is just a urine test)</p><p>If I knew he was sober and held accountable and going to meetings, I would assist just a tad bit with his rent. BUT if he won't do anything to show accountability then I would not even think about helping. </p><p>I think I am talking myself out of it as I type!! Therapy! He should not have left sober living / IOP and went on his own so even if accountable I should not help right!?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="tryingtobestrong, post: 747023, member: 22817"] I have another question... again I feel like I am falling back into enabling but I also want to give him a shot...There is a recovery coach that he knows and mentioned seeing him at one time. I felt I could offer that and pay for it once a week. He would drug test him as well so there would be some accountability. (although I don't know how long alcohol stays in your system- so if he drank after the session would it still be in his system the following week. I imagine it is just a urine test) If I knew he was sober and held accountable and going to meetings, I would assist just a tad bit with his rent. BUT if he won't do anything to show accountability then I would not even think about helping. I think I am talking myself out of it as I type!! Therapy! He should not have left sober living / IOP and went on his own so even if accountable I should not help right!? [/QUOTE]
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