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psychiatrist appointment today cuz I'm losing it over small stuff .... or so I thought
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 536178" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Sweetie,</p><p></p><p>i say this with all the love in the world. DUMP SOME OF THESE RESPONSIBILITIES EVEN IF IT ANGERS OTHER PEOPLE. </p><p></p><p>ALLn the problems with your health are at least partly stress related. STRESS KILLS. If it does not kill you it will DESTROY your body. I am not talking migraines. I am talking stroke, heart attack, your body going all wonky with autoimmune stuff that has the docs scratching their heads and throwing medications at you to help with the symptoms.</p><p></p><p>I know that this can happen because it happened to ME. My body is TRASHED. I dealt with EVERYTHING for my family mostly on my own for decades. All the difficult child stuff, medication stuff with the kids, house, car, moves, cooking, homeroom mom, AND a lot of stuff with and for my parents, plus tons of drama from difficult child relatives esp gfgbro. </p><p></p><p>It is time to dump some of the problems on the other relatives and demand they deali wth them or the nasties that happen when they don't get dealt with. YOU are too important to have this happen. Work with a psychiatrist and therapist on strategies to unload and let adults deal with their own issues. </p><p></p><p>As for why these people suddenly don't like you or want you around? They KNOW you are a better, smarter stronger person and they KNOW that you see through their BS and they know that you know they are NOT living up to their ideals/statements/whatevers. You probably set some boundaries or refused to be their doormat or whipping post anymore and so they had to stop interacting with you and run you down to others and yourself and themselves or else they ahd to admit they were wrong AND change their ways.</p><p></p><p>(((((hugs)))))</p><p></p><p>PLEASE find a way to cut the stress. PLEASE. I am on my knees BEGGING you to do this and to take care of YOU even if others get upset.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 536178, member: 1233"] Sweetie, i say this with all the love in the world. DUMP SOME OF THESE RESPONSIBILITIES EVEN IF IT ANGERS OTHER PEOPLE. ALLn the problems with your health are at least partly stress related. STRESS KILLS. If it does not kill you it will DESTROY your body. I am not talking migraines. I am talking stroke, heart attack, your body going all wonky with autoimmune stuff that has the docs scratching their heads and throwing medications at you to help with the symptoms. I know that this can happen because it happened to ME. My body is TRASHED. I dealt with EVERYTHING for my family mostly on my own for decades. All the difficult child stuff, medication stuff with the kids, house, car, moves, cooking, homeroom mom, AND a lot of stuff with and for my parents, plus tons of drama from difficult child relatives esp gfgbro. It is time to dump some of the problems on the other relatives and demand they deali wth them or the nasties that happen when they don't get dealt with. YOU are too important to have this happen. Work with a psychiatrist and therapist on strategies to unload and let adults deal with their own issues. As for why these people suddenly don't like you or want you around? They KNOW you are a better, smarter stronger person and they KNOW that you see through their BS and they know that you know they are NOT living up to their ideals/statements/whatevers. You probably set some boundaries or refused to be their doormat or whipping post anymore and so they had to stop interacting with you and run you down to others and yourself and themselves or else they ahd to admit they were wrong AND change their ways. (((((hugs))))) PLEASE find a way to cut the stress. PLEASE. I am on my knees BEGGING you to do this and to take care of YOU even if others get upset. [/QUOTE]
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