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<blockquote data-quote="Shari" data-source="post: 243948" data-attributes="member: 1848"><p>Thanks for the input, guys. </p><p> </p><p>husband is intent he "have consequences" for this (ie the tv, which actually would be punishing me more cause on the rare instance he'll sit and watch tv, I use it.)</p><p> </p><p>I guess I was caught up in the fact that he wasn't in an out of control rage when he said this. But you're right, that doesn't mean he's any more stable than when he's having an out of control rage...its just scarier when he seems to be aware of what he's doing.</p><p> </p><p>The guns are all locked away. The keys to the gun cases are locked in another spot.</p><p> </p><p>I have arranged for a deputy to come as soon as possible and make a production of taking the guns away from people who make unsafe threats. They will go to the ex in-law's house to stay for a period of time. I think this will make an impression on him because everyone in the house does own a gun and its kind of a right of passage and something he wants to have, too. He's also going to see my mounted shooting guns taken away. I do think that will make an impression, and stable or not, this doesn't fly.</p><p> </p><p>Ironically, the deputy coming to the house sits on the county mental health board and chairs the crisis intervention team. This might be a silver lining in this cloud.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shari, post: 243948, member: 1848"] Thanks for the input, guys. husband is intent he "have consequences" for this (ie the tv, which actually would be punishing me more cause on the rare instance he'll sit and watch tv, I use it.) I guess I was caught up in the fact that he wasn't in an out of control rage when he said this. But you're right, that doesn't mean he's any more stable than when he's having an out of control rage...its just scarier when he seems to be aware of what he's doing. The guns are all locked away. The keys to the gun cases are locked in another spot. I have arranged for a deputy to come as soon as possible and make a production of taking the guns away from people who make unsafe threats. They will go to the ex in-law's house to stay for a period of time. I think this will make an impression on him because everyone in the house does own a gun and its kind of a right of passage and something he wants to have, too. He's also going to see my mounted shooting guns taken away. I do think that will make an impression, and stable or not, this doesn't fly. Ironically, the deputy coming to the house sits on the county mental health board and chairs the crisis intervention team. This might be a silver lining in this cloud. [/QUOTE]
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