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Punishments: What works/what doesnt?
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<blockquote data-quote="whatamess" data-source="post: 371580" data-attributes="member: 7664"><p>For our difficult child, we redirect/distract/keep safe in crisis and then in a calm moment we talk about choices/feelings. We used to rely heavily on reward systems, time out and taking away privileges- those strategies rarely worked. Honestly, we have discovered that when he is able to do the right thing... he does it (regardless of reward) and when his mood/anxiety are ramped up his impulsivity and decision-making capabilities really prevent him from following a reward/punishment system.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="whatamess, post: 371580, member: 7664"] For our difficult child, we redirect/distract/keep safe in crisis and then in a calm moment we talk about choices/feelings. We used to rely heavily on reward systems, time out and taking away privileges- those strategies rarely worked. Honestly, we have discovered that when he is able to do the right thing... he does it (regardless of reward) and when his mood/anxiety are ramped up his impulsivity and decision-making capabilities really prevent him from following a reward/punishment system. [/QUOTE]
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