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<blockquote data-quote="hearthope" data-source="post: 55621" data-attributes="member: 2389"><p>Thank you all for the suggestions.</p><p></p><p>I am walking a fine line with the control issues with easy child right now, it has to do with other issues but they all mesh in the end.</p><p></p><p>I feel like if I demand control with this she is ultimately going to keep his contacting her from me.</p><p></p><p>I think it would turn out just like Sunny said, he would just meet her down the street or show back up at her job. All she has to do is give him her cell # and I would never have a clue.</p><p></p><p>I hadn't even thought of a protective order for her, maybe I will bring that up to the therapist.</p><p></p><p>She has been angry, maybe angry is not the right word. She has been distant since the meeting we had with the therapist. I think she feels like I took something away from her. Here's this person that knows only what she feels like talking about and I <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/censored2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":censored2:" title="censored2 :censored2:" data-shortname=":censored2:" /> in and spill the beans. Her only reply thru the entire hour was "I don't want to talk about it!" But it was apparent that it was affecting her because tears streamed down most of the time.</p><p></p><p>I do feel like I have to protect her, but I also feel like I would rather her find out now the truths of addiction while she is at home with us and we can be there for her rather than later in life.</p><p></p><p>I am in awe how one family members choices affect the other members of the family so deeply.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Thank you all,</p><p></p><p>Traci</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearthope, post: 55621, member: 2389"] Thank you all for the suggestions. I am walking a fine line with the control issues with easy child right now, it has to do with other issues but they all mesh in the end. I feel like if I demand control with this she is ultimately going to keep his contacting her from me. I think it would turn out just like Sunny said, he would just meet her down the street or show back up at her job. All she has to do is give him her cell # and I would never have a clue. I hadn't even thought of a protective order for her, maybe I will bring that up to the therapist. She has been angry, maybe angry is not the right word. She has been distant since the meeting we had with the therapist. I think she feels like I took something away from her. Here's this person that knows only what she feels like talking about and I :censored: in and spill the beans. Her only reply thru the entire hour was "I don't want to talk about it!" But it was apparent that it was affecting her because tears streamed down most of the time. I do feel like I have to protect her, but I also feel like I would rather her find out now the truths of addiction while she is at home with us and we can be there for her rather than later in life. I am in awe how one family members choices affect the other members of the family so deeply. Thank you all, Traci [/QUOTE]
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