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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 518461" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I would tell her that of course she can talk to the Occupational Therapist (OT), but not unless you are present or she is discussing something other than your child. She can have the Occupational Therapist (OT)'s report - that you will deliver to her and read first so that she only gets the pertinent parts. If she has more questions, she can write them out and give them to you and you will pass the appropriate ones on to the Occupational Therapist (OT) an deliver the appropriate answers to her. </p><p></p><p>Your instincts and your husband's instincts are telling you that NO is the right answer. DON"T let "manners" guide you to go against your instincts. Period. so what if she thinks it is rude? She has EARNED that distrust and rudeness and no way does she have the right or the need to question this professional about your child with-o your supervision. PERIOD.</p><p></p><p>She can, of course, ask the questions at the IEP meeting. What could she want to know that would be inappropriate to ask in front of ALL of the people at the IEP meeting? </p><p></p><p>Don't trust her. She will twist whatever is said to do what she wants it to, which is to make it so she doesn't have to help your child. She wants the talk to be with-o you so she can ask things she knows she shouldn't, and she wants her boss and coworkers to not be there for the same reason. </p><p></p><p>The times we make the biggest mistakes are when we don't follow our instincts, those little voices or gut reactions. They are NOT minor, they are are best and earliest warnings.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 518461, member: 1233"] I would tell her that of course she can talk to the Occupational Therapist (OT), but not unless you are present or she is discussing something other than your child. She can have the Occupational Therapist (OT)'s report - that you will deliver to her and read first so that she only gets the pertinent parts. If she has more questions, she can write them out and give them to you and you will pass the appropriate ones on to the Occupational Therapist (OT) an deliver the appropriate answers to her. Your instincts and your husband's instincts are telling you that NO is the right answer. DON"T let "manners" guide you to go against your instincts. Period. so what if she thinks it is rude? She has EARNED that distrust and rudeness and no way does she have the right or the need to question this professional about your child with-o your supervision. PERIOD. She can, of course, ask the questions at the IEP meeting. What could she want to know that would be inappropriate to ask in front of ALL of the people at the IEP meeting? Don't trust her. She will twist whatever is said to do what she wants it to, which is to make it so she doesn't have to help your child. She wants the talk to be with-o you so she can ask things she knows she shouldn't, and she wants her boss and coworkers to not be there for the same reason. The times we make the biggest mistakes are when we don't follow our instincts, those little voices or gut reactions. They are NOT minor, they are are best and earliest warnings. [/QUOTE]
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