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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 494571" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>Could be both. Q will say to me somtimes... you thing i am saying sorry because I want X back right? I say, well why did you say sorry. He says well I do want X back AND I am sorry i said that to you. </p><p></p><p>on those days when i get caught up in it, i do the same as you do.... go back and work on it. Q does the same thing often to me, no matter if there is a blow up or not... he says things like, I know you are lying. Or you are just saying that because Integrated Listening Systems (ILS) is here and then when they leave you will change your mind. I really dont do that and I ask him to tell me when I have done that. Then I caught myself once where he really was getting to do whatever it was that I had promised (oh, watching a sports thing on tv) and he kicked off in another way. The thing he was doing at that time was tv and after working on it for a long time, I finally pulled the plug. (that resets our locks). He said, see... I knew you would not keep your promise. ARRGGG so then we needed (after he calmed) to go thru the time line.. to see the plug pulling was not due to a lie....but due to the thing that happened right before it. he is not allowed to eat on the couch right there.... and the thing is our table is in the same room (a combo dining/living) so the thing is, no tv if he has food on the couch.... it is a consistent rule and if he breaks the rule then no TV. But in his mind, I said he could watch it no matter what. </p><p></p><p>Stuff like that happens all the time here. I try to do better but I make lots of mistakes.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 494571, member: 12886"] Could be both. Q will say to me somtimes... you thing i am saying sorry because I want X back right? I say, well why did you say sorry. He says well I do want X back AND I am sorry i said that to you. on those days when i get caught up in it, i do the same as you do.... go back and work on it. Q does the same thing often to me, no matter if there is a blow up or not... he says things like, I know you are lying. Or you are just saying that because Integrated Listening Systems (ILS) is here and then when they leave you will change your mind. I really dont do that and I ask him to tell me when I have done that. Then I caught myself once where he really was getting to do whatever it was that I had promised (oh, watching a sports thing on tv) and he kicked off in another way. The thing he was doing at that time was tv and after working on it for a long time, I finally pulled the plug. (that resets our locks). He said, see... I knew you would not keep your promise. ARRGGG so then we needed (after he calmed) to go thru the time line.. to see the plug pulling was not due to a lie....but due to the thing that happened right before it. he is not allowed to eat on the couch right there.... and the thing is our table is in the same room (a combo dining/living) so the thing is, no tv if he has food on the couch.... it is a consistent rule and if he breaks the rule then no TV. But in his mind, I said he could watch it no matter what. Stuff like that happens all the time here. I try to do better but I make lots of mistakes. [/QUOTE]
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