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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 710192" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>You did not fail. You did not control all of the input that the "result" required. The input came from your son, not you. You did every single thing you committed in doing. Who knows what he said in each forum that contributed to the result. Nobody can guarantee a result. We only determine our intentions and follow through. Your son may have had intentions that were different from your own; his follow through could well have worked against your own. He may have gained the result that he wanted, which was to undermine your own.</p><p></p><p>He may not be ready or willing to recover. Whether or not he chooses to in the future, he will decide not you.</p><p></p><p>You failed at nothing. You brought him to Rehab. You brought him to a hospital. You control nothing except what you can control. This is no failure on your part.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 710192, member: 18958"] You did not fail. You did not control all of the input that the "result" required. The input came from your son, not you. You did every single thing you committed in doing. Who knows what he said in each forum that contributed to the result. Nobody can guarantee a result. We only determine our intentions and follow through. Your son may have had intentions that were different from your own; his follow through could well have worked against your own. He may have gained the result that he wanted, which was to undermine your own. He may not be ready or willing to recover. Whether or not he chooses to in the future, he will decide not you. You failed at nothing. You brought him to Rehab. You brought him to a hospital. You control nothing except what you can control. This is no failure on your part. [/QUOTE]
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