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<blockquote data-quote="timer lady" data-source="post: 169591" data-attributes="member: 393"><p><span style="font-size: 15px"><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"><em><strong>Janet,</strong></em></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 15px"><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"><em><strong></strong></em></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 15px"><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"><em><strong>My husband isn't one to "talk" ~ he assumes I know that he loves me, will be there, etc.</strong></em></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 15px"><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"><em><strong></strong></em></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 15px"><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"><em><strong>What he doesn't get, is exactly what you are feeling - isolation, inability to get away from the chaos, the calls & the kids. </strong></em></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 15px"><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"><em><strong></strong></em></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 15px"><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"><em><strong>I email husband on a regular basis. Love notes & needs. </strong></em></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 15px"><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"><em><strong></strong></em></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 15px"><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"><em><strong>I wish I could find a way for you to feel better about yourself & your situation - to be honest, it bites. It's hard to build something positive out of so many negatives. All I can suggest is to find one thing - just one thing daily to make you smile. One thing that you like about yourself. </strong></em></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 15px"><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"><em><strong></strong></em></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 15px"><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"><em><strong>Honey, I no longer look in the mirror - I know the physcial changes that have occurred & I refuse to look in the mirror. I still find one thing daily - many days it's the same thing, that I like about me. </strong></em></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 15px"><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"><em><strong></strong></em></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 15px"><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"><em><strong>In the meantime, find a way to "talk" to your husband. To communicate your need to get away alone with him. Negotiate a weekend a month or something of that nature. It's important for your most precious relationship.</strong></em></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 15px"><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"><em><strong></strong></em></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="timer lady, post: 169591, member: 393"] [SIZE=4][FONT=Century Gothic][I][B]Janet, My husband isn't one to "talk" ~ he assumes I know that he loves me, will be there, etc. What he doesn't get, is exactly what you are feeling - isolation, inability to get away from the chaos, the calls & the kids. I email husband on a regular basis. Love notes & needs. I wish I could find a way for you to feel better about yourself & your situation - to be honest, it bites. It's hard to build something positive out of so many negatives. All I can suggest is to find one thing - just one thing daily to make you smile. One thing that you like about yourself. Honey, I no longer look in the mirror - I know the physcial changes that have occurred & I refuse to look in the mirror. I still find one thing daily - many days it's the same thing, that I like about me. In the meantime, find a way to "talk" to your husband. To communicate your need to get away alone with him. Negotiate a weekend a month or something of that nature. It's important for your most precious relationship. [/B][/I][/FONT][/SIZE] [/QUOTE]
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