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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 169654" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>You have given me lots of things to think about.</p><p></p><p>Jo...we have the same situation almost but in reverse but for different reasons. </p><p></p><p>Another of my really big problems is that I really dont know who ME is and what I would even like to do...lol. See...I think part of the problem is I started having the kids so young that I didnt have the chance to grow up and have adult activities and hobbies. All I have to look back on is what I did as a teen...and those were difficult child things! I dont think I want to go throwing wild parties or staying out all night drinking...lol.</p><p></p><p>When I met Tony I already had Billy so it was instant family and he was thrilled with that. We didnt even really date. I met him and moved in with him that same night. I know how the odds say we shouldnt be together but we are both just too stubborn to give up...lol. By the time we had been together a year, we had Jamie. The rest is history. </p><p></p><p>He does do so much for me and has been here for me through thick and thin. Trust me, I know it wasnt easy to live with me for all these years when we didnt have a clue what was wrong with me and I was a B from hades. Im sure he wanted to walk on more than one occasion. </p><p></p><p>As far as making the boys leave...well I cant make Cory leave because of the house arrest and intensive probation deal. He is either chained to the house or has to be in the house by a certain time. I am not so much the warden because I refuse to take on that roll. I dont get paid to be a PO. I am not babysitting him...if they want to check on them, thats their job...and unless he does something to me, I am not calling them. I do however, provide the roof. </p><p></p><p>We could maybe plan a night out at a motel once a month. Maybe...if finances work out. Just a cheapie motel six or something. The one thing we really enjoy doing together is going to concerts but that isnt something you can do all the time but we really look forward to those that we do go and see. </p><p></p><p>I really need to figure out something that is just for me. Such a conundrum. I am pretty boring I think...lol.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 169654, member: 1514"] You have given me lots of things to think about. Jo...we have the same situation almost but in reverse but for different reasons. Another of my really big problems is that I really dont know who ME is and what I would even like to do...lol. See...I think part of the problem is I started having the kids so young that I didnt have the chance to grow up and have adult activities and hobbies. All I have to look back on is what I did as a teen...and those were difficult child things! I dont think I want to go throwing wild parties or staying out all night drinking...lol. When I met Tony I already had Billy so it was instant family and he was thrilled with that. We didnt even really date. I met him and moved in with him that same night. I know how the odds say we shouldnt be together but we are both just too stubborn to give up...lol. By the time we had been together a year, we had Jamie. The rest is history. He does do so much for me and has been here for me through thick and thin. Trust me, I know it wasnt easy to live with me for all these years when we didnt have a clue what was wrong with me and I was a B from hades. Im sure he wanted to walk on more than one occasion. As far as making the boys leave...well I cant make Cory leave because of the house arrest and intensive probation deal. He is either chained to the house or has to be in the house by a certain time. I am not so much the warden because I refuse to take on that roll. I dont get paid to be a PO. I am not babysitting him...if they want to check on them, thats their job...and unless he does something to me, I am not calling them. I do however, provide the roof. We could maybe plan a night out at a motel once a month. Maybe...if finances work out. Just a cheapie motel six or something. The one thing we really enjoy doing together is going to concerts but that isnt something you can do all the time but we really look forward to those that we do go and see. I really need to figure out something that is just for me. Such a conundrum. I am pretty boring I think...lol. [/QUOTE]
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