buddy- I have called many places, been the one who found any and all doctors... but husband has to be the one to make the effort. I finally found a place that I think will take things seriously and do a full neurological evaluation and spoke with the nurse for a long time on the phone. I called husband immediately and told him that was expecting his call, provided the number, etc. husband said he would call right then. Never did. Only now that I've told him that easy child and I will be finding alternate housing has he ever mentioned it, asking me for the number again. (But has still never called.) I didn't ask if they had experience with Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) (didn't cross my mind at that time), but she told me to call the police if I ever needed to for transfer to a psychiatric hospital when he was being violent. So they obviously have experience with violent children and take it seriously. Hopefully husband gets in there and doesn't sugar coat things.