buddy, I may just have to take back all of my talk about husband, maybe... He just called me after a discussion with his own Mom, crying. He was telling her how *we* are concerned for easy child's safety and that he doesn't know what to do with difficult child anymore. She also suggested calling biomom's bluff, but I think husband is still adamant about the refusal of that one, knowing it would cause more harm than good. He mentioned possibly sending difficult child to a residential center that is very nearby! (Not sure, but I think this is one of the best residential centers... Boy's Town... Not sure what the criteria is for getting him in there or their specialties, but worth a look, anyhow. Both of my brothers went there during some of their time in fostercare.) husband has broken down and actually admitted that this is serious, but I'm not sure if this is a ploy to keep me here or if it is in earnest. I still intend to leave, however, in the meantime, but I will help him if he tries to help difficult child and help our entire family however I can! And I guess time will tell if he is serious or not.
I've felt that he's worked against me for so, so long, that there was no hope... maybe there is?
