buddy- at what age did you realize that q has Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)? (It is Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD), right?) What age did you begin working with him as a Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) child? I'm just scared, because we didn't catch this earlier on in his life and never used any of the techniques that would be essential for a Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) child. If anything, I have distanced myself from him a bit over the years, in order not to be hurt myself constantly. (Not that I didn't try extra extra love, it was just never recieved and used against me... I didn't know of Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) at that time.) I guess he sort of trained me?