HOPEFUL! I am so glad to see you posting, but sad for your need to. Just a quick one as I have to get going...... TOTALLY, totally agree. Hopeful, you have health issues, you have to take care of YOU. Seems from your post that son is still playing the game and ramping it up at the same time. Really? Ripping off his aunty who has kindly helped him? NO, no, no. Unacceptable.
Please Hopeful take care of you and your husband. You have been through so much, the both of you.
Hugs to you dear warrior sister!
Leafy