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<blockquote data-quote="CrazyinVA" data-source="post: 382374" data-attributes="member: 1157"><p>Forming intense relationships quickly can also be a hallmark of a borderline personality. I've seen this happen with Oldest over and over, although thankfully not to the extreme of moving out of the country. She has, however, announced marriage plans on several different occasions to men she's only known for a short time, has moved in with men quickly, and announced how in love she is, has a new "best friend" one week and hates them the next. That's the thing, the relationships can turn to hatred as quickly as they turned to love. It's very frustrating, I know. With Oldest, I think it's part of her intense dislike of herself and unhappiness, and the need to somehow validate herself from outside sources. The flip side is, when that doesn't work out, all the validation disappears as quickly as it was created, and she's left feeling more lonely and depressed than before. It's a very difficult cycle to watch <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /> </p><p></p><p>The good news is, your difficult child will probably hate this guy in a few weeks, and the Big Move will never happen <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="CrazyinVA, post: 382374, member: 1157"] Forming intense relationships quickly can also be a hallmark of a borderline personality. I've seen this happen with Oldest over and over, although thankfully not to the extreme of moving out of the country. She has, however, announced marriage plans on several different occasions to men she's only known for a short time, has moved in with men quickly, and announced how in love she is, has a new "best friend" one week and hates them the next. That's the thing, the relationships can turn to hatred as quickly as they turned to love. It's very frustrating, I know. With Oldest, I think it's part of her intense dislike of herself and unhappiness, and the need to somehow validate herself from outside sources. The flip side is, when that doesn't work out, all the validation disappears as quickly as it was created, and she's left feeling more lonely and depressed than before. It's a very difficult cycle to watch :( The good news is, your difficult child will probably hate this guy in a few weeks, and the Big Move will never happen :) [/QUOTE]
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