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<blockquote data-quote="Nancy" data-source="post: 382655" data-attributes="member: 59"><p>I think your opinion about her seeking her birthmom is correct. Through drug rehab my difficult child has finally had to face the fact that she comtinues to seek out risky and unhealthy relationships with people because of unresloved adoption issues about her birthmother. She admitted that guys are a game to her, she has to do whatever she can to make everyone of them pay attention to her and if they don't she acts out in a negative way to get that attention. Once she has them she doesn't want them, just wants the thrill of the chase. But in the meantime she gets herself into a lot of trouble with them. She says she wants a good husband and a family but she does everything to make sure that doesn't happen. She continues to sabatoge herself due to her low self esteem.</p><p></p><p>I wish I had a good answer for you but you know already what's behind it. We adopt these children and do everything in our power to love them and help them and yet it isn't enough to undo the damage.</p><p></p><p>Nancy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nancy, post: 382655, member: 59"] I think your opinion about her seeking her birthmom is correct. Through drug rehab my difficult child has finally had to face the fact that she comtinues to seek out risky and unhealthy relationships with people because of unresloved adoption issues about her birthmother. She admitted that guys are a game to her, she has to do whatever she can to make everyone of them pay attention to her and if they don't she acts out in a negative way to get that attention. Once she has them she doesn't want them, just wants the thrill of the chase. But in the meantime she gets herself into a lot of trouble with them. She says she wants a good husband and a family but she does everything to make sure that doesn't happen. She continues to sabatoge herself due to her low self esteem. I wish I had a good answer for you but you know already what's behind it. We adopt these children and do everything in our power to love them and help them and yet it isn't enough to undo the damage. Nancy [/QUOTE]
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