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Rules/Curfews for College-Age difficult children when at Home
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<blockquote data-quote="Allan-Matlem" data-source="post: 545420" data-attributes="member: 10"><p>When you make the rules , you become responsible for his behavior and the need to try and control him and the situation. This does not foster him taking responsibility for his life and lving with the natural consequences of his actions ( not your imposed consequences ) You are treating him like a little kid . We parents have to learn to let go. At most we can express our concerns and try collaborate with him to come up with mutually satisfying solutions. Some parents worry so much and can't sleep at night if their kids are out late - I say , they have a problem </p><p></p><p>AllanKatz -parentingislearning</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Allan-Matlem, post: 545420, member: 10"] When you make the rules , you become responsible for his behavior and the need to try and control him and the situation. This does not foster him taking responsibility for his life and lving with the natural consequences of his actions ( not your imposed consequences ) You are treating him like a little kid . We parents have to learn to let go. At most we can express our concerns and try collaborate with him to come up with mutually satisfying solutions. Some parents worry so much and can't sleep at night if their kids are out late - I say , they have a problem AllanKatz -parentingislearning [/QUOTE]
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