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Sabotaging his own discharge?
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<blockquote data-quote="Coookie" data-source="post: 133041" data-attributes="member: 1587"><p>Hi There,</p><p> </p><p>While I don't have experience with this exact thing, I do have experience with the self sabotage. My difficult child did/does that when anything good comes his way. If he does something good he would/will turn it into something bad. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /> It is almost as if he doesn't think he deserves the good.</p><p> </p><p>My difficult child is older but it has been a pattern for many years and I still do not have an answer. He refused help... "The problem was husband's and mine"... He received a lot of positive reinforcement from us but it didn't seem to make a difference. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /></p><p> </p><p>You sound like you have a good support system at the hospital and I'm sure others will be along with ideas but I would ask his docs this question also if you haven't. </p><p> </p><p>I will hold good thoughts for your difficult child, Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) is a tough thing to deal with.</p><p> </p><p>Hugs</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Coookie, post: 133041, member: 1587"] Hi There, While I don't have experience with this exact thing, I do have experience with the self sabotage. My difficult child did/does that when anything good comes his way. If he does something good he would/will turn it into something bad. :( It is almost as if he doesn't think he deserves the good. My difficult child is older but it has been a pattern for many years and I still do not have an answer. He refused help... "The problem was husband's and mine"... He received a lot of positive reinforcement from us but it didn't seem to make a difference. :( You sound like you have a good support system at the hospital and I'm sure others will be along with ideas but I would ask his docs this question also if you haven't. I will hold good thoughts for your difficult child, Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) is a tough thing to deal with. Hugs [/QUOTE]
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