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<blockquote data-quote="Seeking Peace" data-source="post: 670418" data-attributes="member: 19374"><p>Thank you everyone for responding. I don't think my daughter prefers living on street, and thus far, she's been lucky to land some place. But, I do know she prefers not to work, not to attend therapy, and not to make different choices. </p><p></p><p>I also know every time she claims to want to do right or/and is - is always false and just a way to secure what she wants or needs. Never genuine. Like a play written and orchestrated by her to gain the most for herself. Going so far as to pretend to go to a job for weeks at a time. Amazing how far and eager she is to do things when she wants it or doesn't want to do something.</p><p></p><p>I also know what she says about me. How she uses smear campaigns on me even when we are doing everything possible to help her. That truly angers me. More at myself for continuing to help her while she does that. Do I think so little of myself? She thinks solely because she's my child that I am obligated to help her...time to raise her is done! The time to carry the full responsibility for her is passed.</p><p></p><p>She's 20 years old. Certainly old enough to understand and know how her actions hurt people. She truly doesn't care. I really am starting to believe she's incapable of feeling...more like plays the part that she feels people expect from her....and always for her own benefit. And reality is there's zero respect and zero trust. Not a relationship by no means. I think I'd trust a stranger more. </p><p></p><p>My heart grieves for what will never be.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Seeking Peace, post: 670418, member: 19374"] Thank you everyone for responding. I don't think my daughter prefers living on street, and thus far, she's been lucky to land some place. But, I do know she prefers not to work, not to attend therapy, and not to make different choices. I also know every time she claims to want to do right or/and is - is always false and just a way to secure what she wants or needs. Never genuine. Like a play written and orchestrated by her to gain the most for herself. Going so far as to pretend to go to a job for weeks at a time. Amazing how far and eager she is to do things when she wants it or doesn't want to do something. I also know what she says about me. How she uses smear campaigns on me even when we are doing everything possible to help her. That truly angers me. More at myself for continuing to help her while she does that. Do I think so little of myself? She thinks solely because she's my child that I am obligated to help her...time to raise her is done! The time to carry the full responsibility for her is passed. She's 20 years old. Certainly old enough to understand and know how her actions hurt people. She truly doesn't care. I really am starting to believe she's incapable of feeling...more like plays the part that she feels people expect from her....and always for her own benefit. And reality is there's zero respect and zero trust. Not a relationship by no means. I think I'd trust a stranger more. My heart grieves for what will never be. [/QUOTE]
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