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safe to say i think she has an eating disorder
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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 378695" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>marg,</p><p> </p><p>yes so hard isnt' it for us parents? always. it's like we are god to our kids lol. alot of responsibility and we make mistakes because we are human. </p><p> </p><p>i stopped pulling difficult child out 2 years ago, she utilized the pysch in last school, the nurse. the only way she got out or stayed home was vomit and i had to see it or a fever. dr thinks i should send her, my gut says send her. she has school refusal issues as you know and remember from years past. she is also very smart and can be quite manipulative. if she sees ooh this will get me out of school it'll never stop. truly.</p><p> </p><p>she walks in tonight with-ex h and first thing he says is she didnt' eat much today at all and hugs her. oh man ofcourse as usual he does exactly what i told him not to do. within 5 min she was crying after he left saying i'm going to die etc. look at my arms. i said ok i let her vent than i said did you have a shake today? she said yes 2. i said wow that's great. and now it's time for the shower. i dont' feed into it at all. now that's the therapist in me/nurse. the mom in me wants to fall right in and say oh baby i know it'll be ok, etc. yet i've come to learn with her you just can't do it, very few times i can when anxiety is bad late at night. because she takes it, uses it becomes highly dramatic (where'd she get that from .... ha ha). she's now in shower singing.</p><p> </p><p>not saying i dont' have a huge problem going on. no doubt i do. bet. all the other junk now this, i sat in bathroom last night and cried for about ten min. alone. that's how i empty my cup sort of thing. yet i have to proceed level headed, stick to the routine, and act totally normal.</p><p> </p><p>i purposely got all my junk done so i can haul it to 3 if necessary tonight with-her. we are going to do nails for school tmrw. husband is trying to find her a thermos right now at place next to the restaraunt so i can pack her drink tmrw. with-some other stuff i picked up. went shopping today loaded up with-farina, pancakes, bananas, oatmeal all soft junk. i have my step kids tmrw. so she may just eat with-them here, we'll see.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 378695, member: 4514"] marg, yes so hard isnt' it for us parents? always. it's like we are god to our kids lol. alot of responsibility and we make mistakes because we are human. i stopped pulling difficult child out 2 years ago, she utilized the pysch in last school, the nurse. the only way she got out or stayed home was vomit and i had to see it or a fever. dr thinks i should send her, my gut says send her. she has school refusal issues as you know and remember from years past. she is also very smart and can be quite manipulative. if she sees ooh this will get me out of school it'll never stop. truly. she walks in tonight with-ex h and first thing he says is she didnt' eat much today at all and hugs her. oh man ofcourse as usual he does exactly what i told him not to do. within 5 min she was crying after he left saying i'm going to die etc. look at my arms. i said ok i let her vent than i said did you have a shake today? she said yes 2. i said wow that's great. and now it's time for the shower. i dont' feed into it at all. now that's the therapist in me/nurse. the mom in me wants to fall right in and say oh baby i know it'll be ok, etc. yet i've come to learn with her you just can't do it, very few times i can when anxiety is bad late at night. because she takes it, uses it becomes highly dramatic (where'd she get that from .... ha ha). she's now in shower singing. not saying i dont' have a huge problem going on. no doubt i do. bet. all the other junk now this, i sat in bathroom last night and cried for about ten min. alone. that's how i empty my cup sort of thing. yet i have to proceed level headed, stick to the routine, and act totally normal. i purposely got all my junk done so i can haul it to 3 if necessary tonight with-her. we are going to do nails for school tmrw. husband is trying to find her a thermos right now at place next to the restaraunt so i can pack her drink tmrw. with-some other stuff i picked up. went shopping today loaded up with-farina, pancakes, bananas, oatmeal all soft junk. i have my step kids tmrw. so she may just eat with-them here, we'll see. [/QUOTE]
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