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<blockquote data-quote="Malika" data-source="post: 434606" data-attributes="member: 11227"><p>Thanks Keista for your hugs and supportive words... <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> In fact, J isn't really that sensitive to things like the order in which we do things, or music, or plates, or detergent... The only thing that was different about this morning than most other mornings (apart from being tired) was that he spent about 3 hours watching DVDs. Sunday is his DVD day - other days he doesn't watch because when we did have TV a long time back he was getting really addicted and it was eating into his life - he stopped wanting to talk to me, play with his toys, etc, So this is the compromise we reached. </p><p>In general, he seems to be "best" when he has a lot of time alone with me - one on one time reading stories, playing games, going for walks, etc - or in the structured environment of school. It is hard to hear him say he wanted to go and live with his birth mother (he doesn't usually say this - usually it's that he wants to go and live with my ex-husband in Morocco...) but like I say I kind of understand it. My voice can get very cross and stressed when he acts up, or is really rude in ways I find unacceptable, and I forget that it's all sinking in, all being registered... He is VERY emotionally sensitive, which I've read is typical of ADHD kids. </p><p>Thanks for reassurance re criminal tendencies, HaoZi <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> The smooth lying is worrying to me.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Malika, post: 434606, member: 11227"] Thanks Keista for your hugs and supportive words... :-) In fact, J isn't really that sensitive to things like the order in which we do things, or music, or plates, or detergent... The only thing that was different about this morning than most other mornings (apart from being tired) was that he spent about 3 hours watching DVDs. Sunday is his DVD day - other days he doesn't watch because when we did have TV a long time back he was getting really addicted and it was eating into his life - he stopped wanting to talk to me, play with his toys, etc, So this is the compromise we reached. In general, he seems to be "best" when he has a lot of time alone with me - one on one time reading stories, playing games, going for walks, etc - or in the structured environment of school. It is hard to hear him say he wanted to go and live with his birth mother (he doesn't usually say this - usually it's that he wants to go and live with my ex-husband in Morocco...) but like I say I kind of understand it. My voice can get very cross and stressed when he acts up, or is really rude in ways I find unacceptable, and I forget that it's all sinking in, all being registered... He is VERY emotionally sensitive, which I've read is typical of ADHD kids. Thanks for reassurance re criminal tendencies, HaoZi :-) The smooth lying is worrying to me. [/QUOTE]
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