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<blockquote data-quote="Marguerite" data-source="post: 72905" data-attributes="member: 1991"><p>I have posted in PM, but just to add here - where everything, as much as possible, can be clear and above board, you have the best chance not only of not being exploited but also of anybody trying to exploit being exposed and having the process stopped.</p><p></p><p>If your husband is totally innocent and this is just a scam to lay hands on the money he's unfortunately let people know he has, then going to the police about it is a darn good idea. Even if the police can't do anything because he got the money back - they still need to know that an attempt was made, in case these people try something else.</p><p></p><p>How would these 'friends' know about the girl? Does one of the friends work there, or be likely to also need a babysitter? Is is possible that the girl is a total red herring, not at all involved really, just that he's been told she complained? What would happen if you spoke to the girl (about babysitting)?</p><p></p><p>I would still be very wary - is husband such a bad judge of character? There is a lot more to this story, but I accept it is possible that husband may not know any more than you do.</p><p></p><p>But he shouldn't have tried to cover it up with you - he should have been open with you from the start and not tried to pretend it was something to do with "bad advice". Because after all, if he can't trust you, who CAN he trust?</p><p></p><p>Marg</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marguerite, post: 72905, member: 1991"] I have posted in PM, but just to add here - where everything, as much as possible, can be clear and above board, you have the best chance not only of not being exploited but also of anybody trying to exploit being exposed and having the process stopped. If your husband is totally innocent and this is just a scam to lay hands on the money he's unfortunately let people know he has, then going to the police about it is a darn good idea. Even if the police can't do anything because he got the money back - they still need to know that an attempt was made, in case these people try something else. How would these 'friends' know about the girl? Does one of the friends work there, or be likely to also need a babysitter? Is is possible that the girl is a total red herring, not at all involved really, just that he's been told she complained? What would happen if you spoke to the girl (about babysitting)? I would still be very wary - is husband such a bad judge of character? There is a lot more to this story, but I accept it is possible that husband may not know any more than you do. But he shouldn't have tried to cover it up with you - he should have been open with you from the start and not tried to pretend it was something to do with "bad advice". Because after all, if he can't trust you, who CAN he trust? Marg [/QUOTE]
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