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<blockquote data-quote="dreamer" data-source="post: 200429" data-attributes="member: 1697"><p>worse, all those letters you are writing to school about the nites and mornings etc about your difficult child? The school might be saving those, and useing those and might bring those forward, depending on what you did say.to try to use against you. Depending on how you write what you write, they might misunderstand it, might misconstrue it, might decide they do not like how you are handleing things with your child. Have you told them she was Rx'ed thorazine and you decided not to give it? Depending on how you said that, they might twist it and say you are not following docs orders. </p><p></p><p>I know somewhere here, either here on general forum or over in Special Education forum, I tried to help you understand what "documentation" was about. I thought I tried to help you understand that some of what it sounds like you might be writing to school might not be a good idea right now at this time. and why it might not be. I am nervous you might be giving them a lot of ammunition not to get your difficult child an IEP but rather to have them decide it IS you andnot your childs illness......depending on what you are writing and how you are saying it. You really need the protections of an IEP and docs reports in school records, etc to support the things I am afraid you are saying to the school. Even WITH an IEP, some schools twist things, but without haveing an IEP in place yet, some of these things are NOT going to be considered in the same light by the persons at school.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dreamer, post: 200429, member: 1697"] worse, all those letters you are writing to school about the nites and mornings etc about your difficult child? The school might be saving those, and useing those and might bring those forward, depending on what you did say.to try to use against you. Depending on how you write what you write, they might misunderstand it, might misconstrue it, might decide they do not like how you are handleing things with your child. Have you told them she was Rx'ed thorazine and you decided not to give it? Depending on how you said that, they might twist it and say you are not following docs orders. I know somewhere here, either here on general forum or over in Special Education forum, I tried to help you understand what "documentation" was about. I thought I tried to help you understand that some of what it sounds like you might be writing to school might not be a good idea right now at this time. and why it might not be. I am nervous you might be giving them a lot of ammunition not to get your difficult child an IEP but rather to have them decide it IS you andnot your childs illness......depending on what you are writing and how you are saying it. You really need the protections of an IEP and docs reports in school records, etc to support the things I am afraid you are saying to the school. Even WITH an IEP, some schools twist things, but without haveing an IEP in place yet, some of these things are NOT going to be considered in the same light by the persons at school. [/QUOTE]
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