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<blockquote data-quote="Andy" data-source="post: 267905" data-attributes="member: 5096"><p>Thank you!</p><p> </p><p>I will call the peds doctor today for an appointment.</p><p> </p><p>Flutter, you make a good point about "how long". He makes comments about things so I can keep a mental note on how long each issue is lasting but I will add that to the question, "On a scale, what number and when did this start?" I will also be kinder about the number I look at to get involved with. I just get so angry when he gets so into his pain and by the time I remember to ask what the number is what I believe is a 9 by his behavior is only a 3! (feel like screaming, "And you wasted my fears on a 3?") It willl be harder for him to draw me in emotionally if I know the pain is minor and as you pointed out, I also have to consider the chronic part of this - minor chronic pains can be issues as well as 6 - 7 pains. </p><p>Midwest is correct that he does believe every twinge is a sign of death.</p><p></p><p>He did see a doctor yesterday who looked into his throat - no redness.</p><p> </p><p>I will ask for an appointment toward the end of the day. Our doctor's office is 1 hour away so he may likely have to be taken out of school.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Andy, post: 267905, member: 5096"] Thank you! I will call the peds doctor today for an appointment. Flutter, you make a good point about "how long". He makes comments about things so I can keep a mental note on how long each issue is lasting but I will add that to the question, "On a scale, what number and when did this start?" I will also be kinder about the number I look at to get involved with. I just get so angry when he gets so into his pain and by the time I remember to ask what the number is what I believe is a 9 by his behavior is only a 3! (feel like screaming, "And you wasted my fears on a 3?") It willl be harder for him to draw me in emotionally if I know the pain is minor and as you pointed out, I also have to consider the chronic part of this - minor chronic pains can be issues as well as 6 - 7 pains. Midwest is correct that he does believe every twinge is a sign of death. He did see a doctor yesterday who looked into his throat - no redness. I will ask for an appointment toward the end of the day. Our doctor's office is 1 hour away so he may likely have to be taken out of school. [/QUOTE]
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