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See the Child...Not the difficult child. Easier Said than Done
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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 325801" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>I didnt mean to poke fun. It is very hard to deal with someone when you cant tell how much is under their control. Its something I have had to learn with Cory. I probably forgave him way too often for his own good. Didnt hold him accountable because I put myself in his place with the way I sometimes felt inside. I dont think that was the right thing to do. My issues and his arent necessarily the same...lol. </p><p></p><p>I know Tony would tell you that I have been extremely hard to live with because so many of the things I have done seemed completely under my control when in reality I was having a meltdown and couldnt control myself at the time. I have holes in my walls because I got so mad I had to hit something. One would think a person in their 40's would be able to stop themselves from punching a wall and damaging property. I pretty much can now but that is after 4 years of therapy and the right medications. Even just taking the right medications, I still punched walls. It was therapy that made the difference. I wouldnt have believed that until I did therapy...lol.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 325801, member: 1514"] I didnt mean to poke fun. It is very hard to deal with someone when you cant tell how much is under their control. Its something I have had to learn with Cory. I probably forgave him way too often for his own good. Didnt hold him accountable because I put myself in his place with the way I sometimes felt inside. I dont think that was the right thing to do. My issues and his arent necessarily the same...lol. I know Tony would tell you that I have been extremely hard to live with because so many of the things I have done seemed completely under my control when in reality I was having a meltdown and couldnt control myself at the time. I have holes in my walls because I got so mad I had to hit something. One would think a person in their 40's would be able to stop themselves from punching a wall and damaging property. I pretty much can now but that is after 4 years of therapy and the right medications. Even just taking the right medications, I still punched walls. It was therapy that made the difference. I wouldnt have believed that until I did therapy...lol. [/QUOTE]
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