I apologize for not replying sooner - health issues are getting in the way at this end.
husband & I have spoken with our mental health case manager; he is going to set up a 20 day respite to give my body a chance to heal. Also to give husband & I a chance to see our counselor & spend time alone together. CM will support whatever decision is made.
His concern is making a decision of this nature when I'm not in a good place health wise. And he is correct.
I appreciate all the kind words of support. It brought tears to my eyes.
All I can say at this time is that life moves on & I plan on being on the next train.
Thanks again.