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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 596382" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I wouldn't get married. This boy is a sexual predator. A NonVerbal Learning Disorder (NVLD) doesn't cause people to molest little kids nor does it's cousin, Aspergers. He was significantly older than her. This wasn't just a child playing with a consenting friend. The boy was probably molested himself down the line, but that really doesn't change anything...he should get treatment out of the house. He should never be alone with her and there should be an alarm on his door at night.</p><p></p><p>I would never allow my five year old to live with this boy. We adopted a boy who did this. The day we found out about this boy had molested my young kids, he was gone forever. This is serious. I felt we needed to show our victimized kids that we were 100% on their side.</p><p></p><p>I would consider this child a dealbreaker and move on. I hope your daughter is going to therapy. It is possible that she has been molested a lot more than just that time. Kids tend not to tell the whole story, at least not while the scary kid is still living in the house. This child doesn't need the criminal justice system although I'm glad charges were pressed. What he needs is 24/7 residential care and help in a place where he has no access to your young daughter. Or other kids in the neighborhood.</p><p></p><p>I'm really sorry you went through this because I did too and I know it is devestating. It doesn't seem like your girlfriend even thinks what he did was as serious as it was. Think hard before you tie this knot and have other kids with her.</p><p></p><p></p><p>You have my prayers.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 596382, member: 1550"] I wouldn't get married. This boy is a sexual predator. A NonVerbal Learning Disorder (NVLD) doesn't cause people to molest little kids nor does it's cousin, Aspergers. He was significantly older than her. This wasn't just a child playing with a consenting friend. The boy was probably molested himself down the line, but that really doesn't change anything...he should get treatment out of the house. He should never be alone with her and there should be an alarm on his door at night. I would never allow my five year old to live with this boy. We adopted a boy who did this. The day we found out about this boy had molested my young kids, he was gone forever. This is serious. I felt we needed to show our victimized kids that we were 100% on their side. I would consider this child a dealbreaker and move on. I hope your daughter is going to therapy. It is possible that she has been molested a lot more than just that time. Kids tend not to tell the whole story, at least not while the scary kid is still living in the house. This child doesn't need the criminal justice system although I'm glad charges were pressed. What he needs is 24/7 residential care and help in a place where he has no access to your young daughter. Or other kids in the neighborhood. I'm really sorry you went through this because I did too and I know it is devestating. It doesn't seem like your girlfriend even thinks what he did was as serious as it was. Think hard before you tie this knot and have other kids with her. You have my prayers. [/QUOTE]
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