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<blockquote data-quote="AnnieO" data-source="post: 596400" data-attributes="member: 6705"><p>OMG. I agree that this kid knew what he was doing. Your poor little girl... How horrible for her. I do hope she is in therapy. Nothing can fix what has been done, but hopefully she can learn to live with it and KNOW that it is NOT her fault.</p><p></p><p>As for him... I would suggest that your suggestion of consequence would be as DF said and placement at a far, far away therapeutic residence. They do exist, I know of one in Ohio for that matter. House arrest <em>is</em> paradise for this boy, why should he show remorse if he got rewarded by endless video games? (FWIW, his mother may not know what to do either... And therefore took the easy road and has ostrich syndrome.)</p><p></p><p>As for your boyfriend. I am of two minds here... One, it's not <em>his </em>fault. I am sure he loves his son. However no way in Hades should his son be anywhere near your daughter. I suppose my thoughts are along the lines of... How is boyfriend handling this? Denial? Acceptance and willingness to do what needs to be done? Makes a difference in my opinion.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AnnieO, post: 596400, member: 6705"] OMG. I agree that this kid knew what he was doing. Your poor little girl... How horrible for her. I do hope she is in therapy. Nothing can fix what has been done, but hopefully she can learn to live with it and KNOW that it is NOT her fault. As for him... I would suggest that your suggestion of consequence would be as DF said and placement at a far, far away therapeutic residence. They do exist, I know of one in Ohio for that matter. House arrest [I]is[/I] paradise for this boy, why should he show remorse if he got rewarded by endless video games? (FWIW, his mother may not know what to do either... And therefore took the easy road and has ostrich syndrome.) As for your boyfriend. I am of two minds here... One, it's not [I]his [/I]fault. I am sure he loves his son. However no way in Hades should his son be anywhere near your daughter. I suppose my thoughts are along the lines of... How is boyfriend handling this? Denial? Acceptance and willingness to do what needs to be done? Makes a difference in my opinion. [/QUOTE]
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