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<blockquote data-quote="mamaja" data-source="post: 596430" data-attributes="member: 16393"><p>To add a few things after some comments. My daughter has not and will not be around him at all. My boyfriend and I are very strict about it, as well as, the courts also ensure that they are not to come into contact. His son only comes to our home one weekend a month for visitation, with his 12 y/o sister. (Who by the way has been interviewed as well, and there hasn't been any kind of sexual contact between the two. She resents him for what he did, and how it has effected her life now as well). </p><p></p><p>My boyfriend obviously has been completely devastated by what has happened. He has been in my daughter's life since she was 2 and sees her as his own. He is extremely disturbed with what his son did, and is trying to come to grips with it and be a protective father to both children. It is a tough situation for any parent to be in. </p><p></p><p>When this happened I called my ex-husband (eventhough we can't stand each other) and we came together and made sure our daughter was taken care of. All the therapist say she will be fine and that there shouldn't be any long term effects. (thank goodness). On the other hand, when my boyfriend called his ex-wife to tell her what happened, she said she already had plans for the day and to just drop him off at her house, and she will talk to him later. The kicker in all of this, is that the boy's mother is a pediatrician and her new husband is one too. Of course my boyfriend (who is a surgeon) thought the idea of leaving him alone was ludicrous so they stayed in a hotel that night, so he could try to make sense of what just occurred.</p><p></p><p>This has flipped our family completely upside down. I know the defense attorney is going to use the NonVerbal Learning Disorder (NVLD) as a crutch and try to keep it as just house arrest, probation, no unsupervised internet, but it just doesn't seem like enough to me. So the prosecution wants me to come up with alternatives.... I don't think throwing him in juvenile dentention will do any good.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mamaja, post: 596430, member: 16393"] To add a few things after some comments. My daughter has not and will not be around him at all. My boyfriend and I are very strict about it, as well as, the courts also ensure that they are not to come into contact. His son only comes to our home one weekend a month for visitation, with his 12 y/o sister. (Who by the way has been interviewed as well, and there hasn't been any kind of sexual contact between the two. She resents him for what he did, and how it has effected her life now as well). My boyfriend obviously has been completely devastated by what has happened. He has been in my daughter's life since she was 2 and sees her as his own. He is extremely disturbed with what his son did, and is trying to come to grips with it and be a protective father to both children. It is a tough situation for any parent to be in. When this happened I called my ex-husband (eventhough we can't stand each other) and we came together and made sure our daughter was taken care of. All the therapist say she will be fine and that there shouldn't be any long term effects. (thank goodness). On the other hand, when my boyfriend called his ex-wife to tell her what happened, she said she already had plans for the day and to just drop him off at her house, and she will talk to him later. The kicker in all of this, is that the boy's mother is a pediatrician and her new husband is one too. Of course my boyfriend (who is a surgeon) thought the idea of leaving him alone was ludicrous so they stayed in a hotel that night, so he could try to make sense of what just occurred. This has flipped our family completely upside down. I know the defense attorney is going to use the NonVerbal Learning Disorder (NVLD) as a crutch and try to keep it as just house arrest, probation, no unsupervised internet, but it just doesn't seem like enough to me. So the prosecution wants me to come up with alternatives.... I don't think throwing him in juvenile dentention will do any good. [/QUOTE]
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