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<blockquote data-quote="Dixies_fire" data-source="post: 596518" data-attributes="member: 16184"><p>Depends...</p><p>You say he's trying to be a protective father to both children.</p><p>How does he see his son's punishment right now?</p><p>Does he think it fits the crime or will keep him from doing this in the future to some other child? </p><p>If he thinks this is fair that his son is getting off Scott free, cut ties</p><p>If you or he ever expect your daughter to just suck it up and deal with his presence like at your wedding or Christmas or what have you, cut ties.</p><p>Have a detailed talk about what the future holds, what these events important "family" events are going to be like. If any of them involve your daughter giving up her comfort for his son who in my opinion should be treated like an adult, cut ties.</p><p></p><p>I would tell the truth in court.</p><p>Tell the judge what you told us. He isn't being punished. He's derailed your daughter's life your life his sister's relationship with her father. Your relationship with his father. He's 16, he will do it again if he gets off lightly maybe not to your kid but someone else. I would not be recommending volunteer work I would not want him to be around children even by accident and in my opinion deserves some adult consequences maybe a serious treatment facility or possibly detention time. Not just a slap on the wrist.</p><p></p><p>Jmo</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Dixies_fire, post: 596518, member: 16184"] Depends... You say he's trying to be a protective father to both children. How does he see his son's punishment right now? Does he think it fits the crime or will keep him from doing this in the future to some other child? If he thinks this is fair that his son is getting off Scott free, cut ties If you or he ever expect your daughter to just suck it up and deal with his presence like at your wedding or Christmas or what have you, cut ties. Have a detailed talk about what the future holds, what these events important "family" events are going to be like. If any of them involve your daughter giving up her comfort for his son who in my opinion should be treated like an adult, cut ties. I would tell the truth in court. Tell the judge what you told us. He isn't being punished. He's derailed your daughter's life your life his sister's relationship with her father. Your relationship with his father. He's 16, he will do it again if he gets off lightly maybe not to your kid but someone else. I would not be recommending volunteer work I would not want him to be around children even by accident and in my opinion deserves some adult consequences maybe a serious treatment facility or possibly detention time. Not just a slap on the wrist. Jmo [/QUOTE]
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