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<blockquote data-quote="mamaja" data-source="post: 596540" data-attributes="member: 16393"><p>So let me reiterate again. My daughter will NEVER have to see him or be near him. When he comes to my home, we all go to Grandma's house for the weekend (I don't tell the kids why), they just love going to see Grandma. My daughter is doing great and extremely well protected. </p><p></p><p>My boyfriend wants his son to get serious help, but since his ex-wife is the primary custodian, anything he suggests, she immediately says no, just because he asked for it. He wanted his son in therapy at least 3 times a week, right after the incident, and she only has him attending once a week. My boyfriend has asked over and over again, on what his status is? what does his therapist say? what does the defense attorney think? Yet she refuses to pass on any information. Just recently was the first time we were able to talk to his therapist, because we had to get my boyfriend's attorney involved for her to sign a medical release. My boyfriend thinks the current punishment is ludicrous, because he sees that his son isn't even recognizing that everyone else is hurting. (Part of NonVerbal Learning Disorder (NVLD) is that they dont show any kind of empathy). He wants his son to understand the severity of what he has done. He thinks that putting him in a sex offender treatment program is pretty much putting him in sex offender university. Where he can learn about all the other types of things people can do. Not really the best environment for an NonVerbal Learning Disorder (NVLD) kid. His son is very impressionable and extremely immature, and with the added NonVerbal Learning Disorder (NVLD) it is very difficult to say what is the best route to take. Is there any statistical data out there concerning what the likelihood of reoffending is, if a child was to partake in various programs?</p><p></p><p> I know a lot of people do not agree with me not just wanting to send him to the wolves. Believe me, at first I was furious and I think he has probably never seen a person react like me (think crazy lady, who threatens to rip off your face). After time passed, and I was reassured over and over again by therapists that my daughter is wonderful, the parent in me kicked in. His son needs serious help and I think it is my duty as a parent to recommend the best kind of treatment that will help a kid like him, especially since his mother seems to just want to sweep this whole thing under the rug.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mamaja, post: 596540, member: 16393"] So let me reiterate again. My daughter will NEVER have to see him or be near him. When he comes to my home, we all go to Grandma's house for the weekend (I don't tell the kids why), they just love going to see Grandma. My daughter is doing great and extremely well protected. My boyfriend wants his son to get serious help, but since his ex-wife is the primary custodian, anything he suggests, she immediately says no, just because he asked for it. He wanted his son in therapy at least 3 times a week, right after the incident, and she only has him attending once a week. My boyfriend has asked over and over again, on what his status is? what does his therapist say? what does the defense attorney think? Yet she refuses to pass on any information. Just recently was the first time we were able to talk to his therapist, because we had to get my boyfriend's attorney involved for her to sign a medical release. My boyfriend thinks the current punishment is ludicrous, because he sees that his son isn't even recognizing that everyone else is hurting. (Part of NonVerbal Learning Disorder (NVLD) is that they dont show any kind of empathy). He wants his son to understand the severity of what he has done. He thinks that putting him in a sex offender treatment program is pretty much putting him in sex offender university. Where he can learn about all the other types of things people can do. Not really the best environment for an NonVerbal Learning Disorder (NVLD) kid. His son is very impressionable and extremely immature, and with the added NonVerbal Learning Disorder (NVLD) it is very difficult to say what is the best route to take. Is there any statistical data out there concerning what the likelihood of reoffending is, if a child was to partake in various programs? I know a lot of people do not agree with me not just wanting to send him to the wolves. Believe me, at first I was furious and I think he has probably never seen a person react like me (think crazy lady, who threatens to rip off your face). After time passed, and I was reassured over and over again by therapists that my daughter is wonderful, the parent in me kicked in. His son needs serious help and I think it is my duty as a parent to recommend the best kind of treatment that will help a kid like him, especially since his mother seems to just want to sweep this whole thing under the rug. [/QUOTE]
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