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<blockquote data-quote="mamaja" data-source="post: 596559" data-attributes="member: 16393"><p>Midwest Mom - my daughter has been told that she will never see him again by myself/therapists/detectives. It is at the advice of her therapists that we do not discuss it with her unless she asks about him or brings up what happened. She hasn't talked about it in at least 4 months. Her therapists all say she is doing great and is a normal healthy little girl (she goes 3 times a week). We have to rely on them to tell us what is best. The therapists also say that my boyfriend and I showing her a united front that we are there to support and protect her, is very good for her. She is only 5 and keeping her surroundings stable is very important.</p><p></p><p>You are right that he will not be able to go to any events/holidays with us. My boyfriend is in full support of that and his son was told that his actions caused him to be excluded lifelong. I understand that people may think that I should just end my relationship with my boyfriend because of his son and I think I would have if he would have reacted differently to this situation. He has been more supportive to her, than her own father. He has made sure she has the best therapists and reassures her constantly how much he loves her. She looks at him as her real dad. All of her therapists think that relationship should be maintained and strengthened. </p><p></p><p>I really just would like to know if there are any professional resources out there for types of treatment and if there are any success rates? I am clueless in that department and I can not let my personal feelings get in the way of the legal process. No matter how emotional we feel inside, when you are placed in front of a judge, you have to put it to the side and ask for an appropriate punishment/treatment. His mother doesn't seem to give a darn, so I need him to see how a real parent acts and that his actions warrant consequences.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mamaja, post: 596559, member: 16393"] Midwest Mom - my daughter has been told that she will never see him again by myself/therapists/detectives. It is at the advice of her therapists that we do not discuss it with her unless she asks about him or brings up what happened. She hasn't talked about it in at least 4 months. Her therapists all say she is doing great and is a normal healthy little girl (she goes 3 times a week). We have to rely on them to tell us what is best. The therapists also say that my boyfriend and I showing her a united front that we are there to support and protect her, is very good for her. She is only 5 and keeping her surroundings stable is very important. You are right that he will not be able to go to any events/holidays with us. My boyfriend is in full support of that and his son was told that his actions caused him to be excluded lifelong. I understand that people may think that I should just end my relationship with my boyfriend because of his son and I think I would have if he would have reacted differently to this situation. He has been more supportive to her, than her own father. He has made sure she has the best therapists and reassures her constantly how much he loves her. She looks at him as her real dad. All of her therapists think that relationship should be maintained and strengthened. I really just would like to know if there are any professional resources out there for types of treatment and if there are any success rates? I am clueless in that department and I can not let my personal feelings get in the way of the legal process. No matter how emotional we feel inside, when you are placed in front of a judge, you have to put it to the side and ask for an appropriate punishment/treatment. His mother doesn't seem to give a darn, so I need him to see how a real parent acts and that his actions warrant consequences. [/QUOTE]
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