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<blockquote data-quote="bran155" data-source="post: 227049"><p>Thank you guys, so much. </p><p></p><p>Everywoman: You are so right!!! I did let her get away with things in her past due to her illness and I overcompensated plenty for it. It got me nowhere!!! And believe me I will not cave this time!!</p><p></p><p>The phone calls already started. I did expect it however, her b*lls are unbelievable!!! She got so LUCKY, she didn't end up going to Rikers, because of the warrant she was transferred to our county and she is in my towns police station awaiting court which will be on Monday. She called me the first time from the police car, the officer let her use his cell phone. I'm telling you the police here are so nice, too nice. I told her she had some nerve calling me after not calling me for a month. It was expected though. She denied all of the drug use and illegal activity of course. She got arrested in the bronx because she was in someone's car at a light. There were a bunch of NYPD at the corner and they came over to the car and the guy driving took off and almost hit an officer. He had a warrant. So I believe those charges against my daughter were dropped but the warrant was valid so she was transferred up here. Lucky little lady!!! </p><p></p><p>She called me again from the station. The nerve, she starts out the conversation all sweet and innocent like. She says "Mommy, can you please come up here, they took my coat and it's freezing, I'm going to be here until Monday" WHAT???? My first motherly instinct, the old me, wanted so much to run right up and bring her a blanket, coat, pajamas, some food, her Christmas presents and so on..... but my brain quickly re-adjusted and I said "ABSOLUTELY NOT". She began baiting me, telling me this is my fault, you know, the usual BS. We ended the conversation with this: "Fine, I will do my time and be out again, bye b**ch" click. THE B*LLS!!!! Of course it is not that shocking as this is her true self. A month on the streets with no medications didn't help any. There is still a piece of me that really expected her to be humble and begging for forgiveness, but no, not my daughter. As I always say she is by far the most self involved, selfish person I have ever known.</p><p></p><p>So the next time the phone rings and the caller ID says "private", the answering machine will be picking it up!!! I must say that I am shocked at my ability to detach myself from this drama. I really never thought I would get here. It feels really good. And only other "warrior parents" could ever possibly understand that without judgement. I love you guys!!!!</p><p></p><p>I will go to court on Monday ONLY to ensure that she is not released to my home. I will tell the DA as well as the judge that she cannot come back here right now. I will not allow her to disrupt our lives any longer. I am thinking of asking my sw to go instead. Truthfully, I am afraid to even see her. I will be heartbroken the minute I see her face. </p><p></p><p>In the meantime, I WILL get a good nights sleep tonight!!! <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="bran155, post: 227049"] Thank you guys, so much. Everywoman: You are so right!!! I did let her get away with things in her past due to her illness and I overcompensated plenty for it. It got me nowhere!!! And believe me I will not cave this time!! The phone calls already started. I did expect it however, her b*lls are unbelievable!!! She got so LUCKY, she didn't end up going to Rikers, because of the warrant she was transferred to our county and she is in my towns police station awaiting court which will be on Monday. She called me the first time from the police car, the officer let her use his cell phone. I'm telling you the police here are so nice, too nice. I told her she had some nerve calling me after not calling me for a month. It was expected though. She denied all of the drug use and illegal activity of course. She got arrested in the bronx because she was in someone's car at a light. There were a bunch of NYPD at the corner and they came over to the car and the guy driving took off and almost hit an officer. He had a warrant. So I believe those charges against my daughter were dropped but the warrant was valid so she was transferred up here. Lucky little lady!!! She called me again from the station. The nerve, she starts out the conversation all sweet and innocent like. She says "Mommy, can you please come up here, they took my coat and it's freezing, I'm going to be here until Monday" WHAT???? My first motherly instinct, the old me, wanted so much to run right up and bring her a blanket, coat, pajamas, some food, her Christmas presents and so on..... but my brain quickly re-adjusted and I said "ABSOLUTELY NOT". She began baiting me, telling me this is my fault, you know, the usual BS. We ended the conversation with this: "Fine, I will do my time and be out again, bye b**ch" click. THE B*LLS!!!! Of course it is not that shocking as this is her true self. A month on the streets with no medications didn't help any. There is still a piece of me that really expected her to be humble and begging for forgiveness, but no, not my daughter. As I always say she is by far the most self involved, selfish person I have ever known. So the next time the phone rings and the caller ID says "private", the answering machine will be picking it up!!! I must say that I am shocked at my ability to detach myself from this drama. I really never thought I would get here. It feels really good. And only other "warrior parents" could ever possibly understand that without judgement. I love you guys!!!! I will go to court on Monday ONLY to ensure that she is not released to my home. I will tell the DA as well as the judge that she cannot come back here right now. I will not allow her to disrupt our lives any longer. I am thinking of asking my sw to go instead. Truthfully, I am afraid to even see her. I will be heartbroken the minute I see her face. In the meantime, I WILL get a good nights sleep tonight!!! :) [/QUOTE]
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