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She wants to come home and follow the rules
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<blockquote data-quote="dstc_99" data-source="post: 609634" data-attributes="member: 15473"><p>My question is opposite of everyone else's? </p><p></p><p>Is there a third option? A city other than yours where she has drug contacts? A city where she can get good support? Maybe somewhere close to you so that you can see her and support her from afar but where she is not in your house? Perhaps a family member who could help?</p><p></p><p>The reason I ask is this. You seem uncomfortable with her being far away which I can understand. You also seem uncomfortable with her being in your home which I also understand. Maybe a compromise of some sort would help. That way she can plainly see you are willing to support but not give in to her. You would have to be able to trust yourself enough to limit the exposure to her considering you don't think it will be good for the kids. You also have to be sure that she wont show up on the doorstep with issues every day. </p><p></p><p>You have to do what is comfortable for you NOT her. She did this and she has to deal with it but if it gives you peace of mind to know that she is close and safe then you have to consider that as well.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dstc_99, post: 609634, member: 15473"] My question is opposite of everyone else's? Is there a third option? A city other than yours where she has drug contacts? A city where she can get good support? Maybe somewhere close to you so that you can see her and support her from afar but where she is not in your house? Perhaps a family member who could help? The reason I ask is this. You seem uncomfortable with her being far away which I can understand. You also seem uncomfortable with her being in your home which I also understand. Maybe a compromise of some sort would help. That way she can plainly see you are willing to support but not give in to her. You would have to be able to trust yourself enough to limit the exposure to her considering you don't think it will be good for the kids. You also have to be sure that she wont show up on the doorstep with issues every day. You have to do what is comfortable for you NOT her. She did this and she has to deal with it but if it gives you peace of mind to know that she is close and safe then you have to consider that as well. [/QUOTE]
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