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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 404447" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>From other thread and by SW:</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>True- but many of our difficult children will never be open to learning anything better as long as the comfortable "strategies" have been working. That doesn't mean I think it's all intentional or that there isn't anxiety as a cause, or that she doesn't really feel pain in her throat- just that as long as she keeps you bouncing around and out of uncomfortable stuff and afraid of worse, she won't change, in my humble opinion. You need to talk to husband, commit to a treatment plan for a length of time and stick to it without rewards/consequences which leave her in control of your life and ultimately, the entire family, in my humble opinion. If that one doesn't work, then miove on to the next treatment plan for a while. My gut feeling is that you won't do this because you've said in so many past posts that "you can't put her thru it" or "can't leave her to go thru that", etc- if <em><strong>I</strong></em> pick up on that, don't you think she does?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 404447, member: 3699"] From other thread and by SW: [I][/I] True- but many of our difficult children will never be open to learning anything better as long as the comfortable "strategies" have been working. That doesn't mean I think it's all intentional or that there isn't anxiety as a cause, or that she doesn't really feel pain in her throat- just that as long as she keeps you bouncing around and out of uncomfortable stuff and afraid of worse, she won't change, in my humble opinion. You need to talk to husband, commit to a treatment plan for a length of time and stick to it without rewards/consequences which leave her in control of your life and ultimately, the entire family, in my humble opinion. If that one doesn't work, then miove on to the next treatment plan for a while. My gut feeling is that you won't do this because you've said in so many past posts that "you can't put her thru it" or "can't leave her to go thru that", etc- if [I][B]I[/B][/I] pick up on that, don't you think she does? [/QUOTE]
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